My boyfriend is a big ol guy.. about 350, and when I started my diet he would not eat anything I fixed. This made me sooo mad so finally when I would go to the store I wouldnt buy him chips and junk food anymore. So he HAD to eat what I fixed lol... he is now down about 60lbs and tells me how much better he feels. Just remember... you will get to that weight you want more than anything, then what will his reaction be to what youve cooked?!