You know what, don't even focus on anyone right now. I believe when the time is right and the right guy comes along he won't be too shy or intimidated to ask you out. Try not to focus on them and do something fun for yourself or with your girlfriends just continue on this path that you're on and continue to carry yourself the way you have and just watch things happen for you. I'm one to talk, I don't go out, can't be bothered just right now trying to get me in order, losing the weight and feeling better about myself but I've been in your shoe. trust me girl, take care of you that's what matters!