I was like that up until we went on vacation earlier this month. I was weighing myself 3-4 times a day/counting calories of every frickin thing I ate/walking 2-4 miles a day/doing 200-500 crunches a day. On vacation I didn't worry about what I ate, we walked every day casually(at least 4 miles), and just relaxed. Since then I haven't counted anything, have upped my tea intake, only weigh maybe every other day now and haven't been killing myself exercising everyday...and I've lost 9lbs in the last month. I'm tired of living my life worrying about my weight and once I stopped the craziness...the weight has started coming off.
I still buy chips/ice cream/etc. and just bought a choc. silk pie, but we all eat it in smaller portions. All the craziness for me was a mind game. I've just told myself that the weight will come off whether I kill myself doing all the diet bs or if I enjoy my life. Before, I would have had the choc. pie half eaten by now, but now, I haven't even opened the box.
Don't be too hard on yourself about any of bs we have to go through to lose weight. Hang in there!!