Thanks Ladies for all your support, now and over the last few months!!
Yep I can already smell the freedom! Even though I have to go through this stupid counsel stuff, I will get it done.
also Teresa thanks I have read that book, Over and over again...Great book for ppl going though a tuff marriage really helps to let you know it is not all you. I still refer back to it when I am confused or starting to waffel in my decision.
Crap I still say I am going to be a lawyer in my next life!