I am sorry you are going through this, honey! I really think you should take some time to do things together and tell him how you feel. i bet if you tell him you want him to go out with you and have fun he will accomidate. He may get so wrapped up in working and supporting his family he doesn't realize. Get a babysitter and take a whole day to do what you want - see a movie, go for a walk, have some drinks....spice it up! I hope all works out for you!