well first of all, I understand 100% of what you r going through. My husband and I have been married for 14years and this is the first time he has been unemployed for 3 1/2 months. The mood swings are horrible. Sometimes I think I may be putting too much pressure and other times I feel like I am not putting any at all. All I can say is hang in there and be patient- I know it is easier said than done but remember a relationship is based on trials and tribulations; it only makes us stronger. I will be praying for you and remember be strong.