Loving your point of view at the end there. That would definitely get his attention, but it would get mine too. I hardly get time with him now, so the sex is good for me. It wouldn't only punish him. I agree with the maturity thing for most men, but I want to say he is in the lil class of men that is different. He's a total sweetheart when it comes down to things. I just figured he would have noticed by now.
Oh by the way...I'm glad you are able to give a man's point of view. It's refreshing to hear.