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    i don't think it is the weight you have lost per say- its more of the way you dress and feel
    i know the way i dress definetely changed since i started to lose weight


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    OOOHHH YYYEEAAAA!!!!!!!!!!! My sex life has definately changed for the better. We don't do it more just better. The excess fat isn't in the way now and.....well let me just say we are having a great time. Our sexual appitite has always been rather healthy but now the sex is much better for me. I have more confidence in myself and I can do more, if you know what I mean!
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    yep there is a difference. When I was 135-145 we were very active!!! Not so much when I was in the 190's (highest weight). The more weight I lose the more he wants it!!!!! I really think that it has way more to do with me. As for "different" yep there is more you can do and more I will do as i lose I feel better about myself and I think that makes a difference. Have you ever been with someone who had NO confidence> They can drive you crazy and I am that person sometimes , I am getting on my own nerves
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    My guy liked me before as well, and there was never a weight issue as far as he cared. But after losing 70lbs- I can do SOOO many things that I was either too uncomfortable to do, or just too bigto do before!

    I have more confidence, and I can go ALOT longer. Was almost 3 hours lastnight.


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    Sorry you're feeling that way and/or he's making you feel that way. I've never been in that type of situation so I can't say I know how you feel, but I hope the 'unsure' feeling goes away soon.

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    i'm really not anymore confident....it's not that it's "different sex". it's just that he wants to do it more now that i've lost weight. it just makes me think he wasn't attracted to me in that way before, kind of depressing.




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    to be honest I just had this conversation lastnight with hubby! We both noticed that it is easier being intimate..I cant wait to lose more so I c ould ride the way I want! lol ...but in all seriousness he was very attractive to me prior to losong weight but we both like the difference we feel..I think he is considering starting phen as well he is 5'7 275! but i love very inch and every pound but he does need to lose weight as well for health reasons! So dont take it in a bad way,,he's probbaly enjoying you more because you have a new found confidence and it is turning him on!!!!! ( i was 220 last yeart)




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    My boyfriend says he likes me any way I am (unless im like 500 lbs extremely huge) lol... that gives me abig confidence boost. I have agood sex drive so now that im losin and my confidense is building its even bigger... I still feel selfconscious like I will still wear my shirt but it has gottn better the more ill loose. Like ill wear a tank and boxers compared to a tee and pj pants.

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    I'll let ya know when I find a victim, er, man to have sex with!




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    Quote Originally Posted by Raquel View Post
    My situation is different in the fact that my weight goes up and down - but the difference is, when it's down, It's not a *more thing ... it's a *different kind of sex.
    And I'll leave it at that.
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    My situation is different in the fact that my weight goes up and down - but the difference is, when it's down, It's not a *more thing ... it's a *different kind of sex.
    And I'll leave it at that.
    Hi, I'm Roc & I'm on the weight loss rollercoaster as well as a 42 yr. old - mother of 3 year old twins. An entirely different rollercoaster
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    I haven't lost the weight yet....but that's one of my main reasons for wanting to lose it. It''s not so much my husband...but me. I don't feel attractive and to be honest at my weight it's a lot of work to have sex and it's usually not worth the effort. Nothing against my husband when I was thinner it was great...but now it's just too much work.

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    I know when I was with my ex (who is a big fat jerk by the way) we gained weight together, i gained about 25 lbs since i met him and he gained about 40 and it was not good for our sex life. I wanted it all the time (skinny or fat, I always want it haha..... i have a very high sex drive), and then he never wanted it.... it was just awful. When I started losing weight though (and he still was being a lazy jerk) I think he actually felt kind of threatened or scared I was going to leave him so we started having sex all the time again.
    haha but your situation is totally different, your hubby just thinks you are sexy so he wants you more. Yay for more sex! lol
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    Oh Yes! Absolutely! It has really helped me too! I have become more confident.
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    okay, so it's not like we never had sex before i lost weight, but not near as much! before i got pregnant with my son we used to all the time, but i just figured it had slowed down because both of us were drained after working all day and then taking care of kids all night. i guess i was wrong because the working and kids haven't changed, but since i've lost 30+ pounds he won't leave me alone! last night i asked him if it was easier to have sex now that i've lost weight and he was like hell yeah! it kind of makes me feel bad to think he didn't want to before (which he denies). i know it doesn't really matter cus i've lost weight now, but still. has anyone else experienced an unusually eager husband/boyfriend since losing weight?




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    4-9-08 193.6 lbs
    4-16-08 190.8 lbs
    4-23-08 188.0 lbs
    4-30-08 185.6 lbs
    5-7-08 185.6 lbs
    5-14-08 181.2 lbs
    5-21-08 178.8 lbs
    5-28-08 177.6 lbs
    6-04-08 176.8 lbs (stopped the shots. trying it on my own)
    6-16-08 175.6 lbs (went back to the shots today!)
    7-9-08 170.6 lbs (slowing down, but still going down!)

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