I got a family member like ur sister...i totally just remembered lol. My aunt is 58 years old & she still needs her mother to bail her out of her troubles! She married some dead beat loser she found on the streets LITERALLY (he was homeless!!) just b/c she felt like her biological clock was ticking. They had two kids (the oldest is my age) and they never bothered to educate them, and the guy keeps them in the house all freakin day! He doesnt like her seeing her family but yet when she's in trouble he doesnt mind her asking all of them for money?? She's had to file for bankruptcy TWICE and he's thrown his own child out on the streets NUMEROUS TIMES, but yet she doesnt leave him. And my grandma? I kno that its wrong to say this but I cannot stand her @ all. She puts her on a pedestal,doesnt care too much about her other 2 kids lives' and u cannot have a convo with that woman w/o it being about "omg carolyn is going through so much blah blah blah". Oh yea did I mention that HE DOESNT WORK? And he's such a racist too! He swares "the white man is out to get him" . Yea okay wutever buddy no1 is out to get u ! I definitely dont understand why she expects people to handle her mess, and my father totally falls for her stupid schemes too. I feel bad for him sometimes but then I dont b/c he's more than old enough to see that she's STUPID and she doesnt want to leave him. He even gave that lady his old car FOR FREE b/c hers got repo'd !! The drama goes on & on with those people, and when I see any of them call I just ignore the calls b/c I dont have time for any1's bull**** in my life. I got my own problems!!!