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    Wow Chrissie. I know you are devastated and it is good to have a sense of humor. I find that no matter how good you look or have more going for your, it does not matter. Look at all the famous people that still have relationship issues. So keep focusing on the positive and I know you have observed the pain lessens over the days.
    There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by klaus135 View Post
    he does it because you let him or have let him..he knows he can and you'll let him again and again and again. girls like guys who treat them like ****.
    This statement is a load of crap. Just goes to show you how ignorant men can be! Chrissie M has hit the nail on the head with her response and Kudos to Chrissie. Klaus, I may be big and fat and UGLY but I will NEVER EVER be as ugly as you are! You have a lot more work to do than weight loss. I'm sure you are just the type of guy to treat a woman like **** as you put it, just because you think you can. Have you ever looked deep down inside yourself to see why you think that about women? What happened to you that makes you such an expert on how women want to be treated... How about an experiment? Next woman that is stupid enough to date you, Treat her like the Goddess that she is for one month and see how much better your life is because of HER and all the wonderful things she will do for YOU in return. Grow the F up and be a man.
    Get thin and God Bless! Gina


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    please tell me you really did the round up!!! take a pic for us I am sorry you are going thru this
    Started Phen: 4/22/14 SW: 214.2



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    Klaus:
    FIRST: of all Girls DO NOT Like guys that treat them like sh*t!!!
    SECOND: Men are most of the times, DOGS, who can't keep it in their pants if their life depended on it. Humping everything and everyone that they can.
    THIRD: Giving the D ICK HEAD the benefit of the doubt - I will give him this: MAYBE he's the type of guy that needs a girl to depend on him- thru and thru- meaning... he has to feel like the big shot... he has to be the one to fix the problems... he has to be alpha dog... The girl with the problems or issues such as 'drug addict" is Constantly there to stroke his ego!! That type of women needs him to 'help her'.... Chrissie obviously NOT this type of girl.
    FORTH: KLAUS~ Of all the times to chime in on a thread... why did you choose this one, and why the negativity?

    Chrissie~ (((HUGS))) you deserve someone WAY better than him. Chin up girl! There are good guys out there, you just have to 'dig' a little to find them.
    Height= 5'8"
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    CW 2/21/08 = 238 Lost 20 lbs
    CW 3/20/08 = 234 total 24 lbs went off phen
    CW 4/18/08 = 221 toal 33 lbs *reached mini goal
    CW 6/9/08 = TOM & Vacation.... 231 dang it- But it was fun
    CW 7/1/08 = 222
    CW 8/5/08 = 215 -Down 45lbs WOOT WOOT!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by klaus135 View Post
    he does it because you let him or have let him..he knows he can and you'll let him again and again and again. girls like guys who treat them like ****.
    Oh Ok this makes sense now....You are a guy!!!! I just took a look at the only thred you have started since march....ummmm very interesting!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by klaus135 View Post
    he does it because you let him or have let him..he knows he can and you'll let him again and again and again. girls like guys who treat them like ****.
    I beg to differ on this one...I really don't care to be treated like crap...I don't go out and say..."Hey let me find a SOB that will lie, cheat , steal and call me humiliating names and treat like a door mat". I really dont think anyone is looking for that.

    We get caught up in the fariy tale of life and want to believe that men(people) are good deep down...sadly this is not always the case. There are people out in the world that hold no regaurd for one anothers feelings. Then there are the people who are the giving and give their all and some of us just don't key on to you users as fast as we should. I do not think that anyone sets out and says, "I am gonna allow this or that to happpen to me", It just does and most of the time you are in pretty deep when it does and it is hard to wrap your mind around it...
    Last edited by lovemyboys; June 19th, 2008 at 10:49 AM.

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    Lets round up the phen posse girls and go to cali!!!

    I am sure not the one to give advice on any relationship, but be glad he's out of your life and reinvent you!! I would thank his nasty exwife with itty bitty titties for taking this looser off your hands.

    another good song is : Fighter, by Christina Aguilera

    The words are good;


    When I, thought I knew you
    Thinking, that you were true
    I guess I, I couldn't trust
    'Cause your bluff time is up
    'Cause I've had enough
    You were, there by my side
    Always, down for the ride
    But your, joy ride just came down in flames
    'Cause your greed sold me out of shame, mmhmm

    After all of the stealing and cheating
    You probably think that I hold resentment for you
    But, uh uh, oh no, you're wrong
    'Cause if it wasn't for all that you tried to do
    I wouldn't know just how capable I am to pull through
    So I wanna say thank you

    'Cause it makes me that much stronger
    Makes me work a little bit harder
    It makes me that much wiser
    So thanks for making me a fighter
    Made me learn a little bit faster
    Made my skin a little bit thicker
    Makes me that much smarter
    So thanks for making me a fighter

    Oh, ohh

    Never, saw it coming
    All of, your backstabbing
    Just so, you could cash in
    On a good thing before I realized your game
    I heard, you're going around
    Playing, the victim now
    But don't, even begin
    Feeling I'm the one to blame
    'Cause you dug your own grave, uh huh

    After all of the fights and the lies
    Yes you wanted to harm me but that won't work anymore
    Uh, no more, oh no, it's over
    'Cause if it wasn't for all of your torture
    I wouldn't know how to be this way now, and never back down
    So I wanna say thank you

    'Cause it makes me that much stronger
    Makes me work a little bit harder
    Makes me that much wiser
    So thanks for making me a fighter
    Made me learn a little bit faster
    Made my skin a little bit thicker
    It makes me that much smarter
    So thanks for making me a fighter

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    he does it because you let him or have let him..he knows he can and you'll let him again and again and again. girls like guys who treat them like ****.

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    The "right" thing to say is "Don't mess up his lawn."

    But, I've been there--- So I say, "Buy a big *** bottle and write alot of things!!"

    Sorry you are going through this- I know it hurt.

    Chin up girl-- You were looking for someone when you found him. The next guy will be so much better!


    I'll get you, my pretty and your little dog too!

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    All I can say is.....when he realizes he screwed up and wants to get back together w/ you....I strongly suggest you reread this post and don't. I went through a similar (although not as bad) situation with my husband -- we weren't married then. We got back together and have been together 9 years since then. We've gotten married and things are ok....but I still havent' gotten over the past. I love him....but if I had to do it over again I wouldn't have gotten back together with him. Good luck.....you sound wonderful and I'm sure you'll find someone that appreciates you.

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    HE DIDN'T DESERVE YOU ANYWAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    HE JUST MADE ROOM FOR PRINCE CHARMIN, THANKS *******-
    I AM SO HAPPY TO BE HERE I CAN'T EVEN EXPLAIN.I STARTED PHEN,HCG AND B12 INJECTIONS ON 4/15/08 AND TODAY 4/19/08 I HAVE LOST 7LBS,YEAH!! I FEEL TREMENDOUS.

    SO LADIES AND GENTS PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS ][/IMG]

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    Quote Originally Posted by BronzyBella View Post
    Yeah...I've been there...and you do see results ...but your heart hardends
    First of all he is going to really be feeling it in a week, 2 weeks tops, because he won't have you there to do all of those things for him. Not to mention he will be eating his words once you reach your goal. F.uck him...concentrate on yourself to make yourself better and more whole. Use this as your drive to continue to make your life better. And you know what, I'm happy you found out he was an *** cause now you can be open to meet the perfect guy you are supposed to be with.
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    I have so been where you are at, and not that long ago. I found out via the internet that my bf was sniffing out other women onine. I hit a new kinda low. He of course denied it all. I finally asked him to leave and gained back some of the weight I had recently lost. To tell the truth, I am still not over him. I have known him since I was 3 years old but I cannot tolerate that stuff. Hang in there! I will think some evil thoughts about him on your behalf1

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    wow....im dam.n near speechless..... ya poor girl You need anyone to comit a crime for you, im ya gal
    Nikki - Looking to divorce BOB...lol, my BIG OL' BELLY!

    2/05/08 - 252 lbs (the evil truth)
    6/28/08 - 202 ON MY OWN!!!- Life after Phen


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    Damn.... That's horrible. I was hoping you would say you had pulled a Lorena Bobbit on him.
    Andee in KC, MO
    Senior pre-med student majoring in biology, minoring in chemistry & psychology




    5/29/08 seriously dieting again, starting weight 316
    6/1/08 311
    Where I want to be:
    07/01/08--290
    08/01/08--270
    BACK TO FALL SEMESTER--260
    09/01/08-- 250
    10/01/08--235
    11/01/08--220
    12/01/08-- 205
    01/01/09-- 195
    02/01/09-- 190
    03/01/09-- 185
    04/01/09-- 180 FINAL GOAL!!!

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    Cool worst nightmare come true

    You have totally just described my worst nightmare come true... I can't even imagine what you are feeling or thinking or doing. How are you possibly functioning? All I can really say is the same thing you already know, you've already been told by all your friends and everyone else you will come into contact with.... YOU ARE WAY BETTER THAN THAT! From the sound of the relationship, it wasn't worth hanging onto. You were in a relationship with yourself. You paid and he played. That is no good for you or anyone else close to you. You're rain cloud just burst over your head but you have to endure the storm to see the sun come out again. Keep your chin up and wait for that sun to shine through. It will, I promise.
    Get thin and God Bless! Gina


    I swear I'm trapped in that body somewhere!

    07/01 - 225 (first day on phen)
    07/05 - 219 (yeah!)
    07/14 - 215.5 (so close to 10 I can taste it!!)




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    I am so very sorry to hear that((hugs)).My heart goes out to you too((hugs)).Life will get better hon,you will be happy again.He will so regret it((hugs)).

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    Too bad life isn't like Star Wars cause we could all walk up in their with our life sabers and start whooping his a.ss like---->

    And then he'll be like --->

    Then we could say kiss our ---->

    and we can continue beating his butt...

    Then he'll be all like ------>

    and then we could all say "shut the f.uck up you loser!"
    [/B]
    Last edited by BronzyBella; June 18th, 2008 at 03:53 PM.

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    I know this really hurts, much like a divorce and sometimes you feel like you will never get through it. When I went through a heart ache, I journaled for awhile, just to have a place to put my thoughts and keep myself sane. You might try that, it helped me to focus.

    Also, for the next guy, before date again, write a list of all the qualities you liked about this man and the ones you didn't and from other past relationships too. Take the positive list and look for a man with those qualities and don't compromise. Please don't fall in the same pattern again, it is so easy to do.

    I wish you the best. Lots of bad guys out there and you deserve better. Do you have insurance? It might be a good time to see a counselor, to help you get to know yourself again. You sound like you may have sacrificed a lot of yourself for him and now you may need to find that person again.

    So sorry for the pain this caused....it ****S.

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    Default oh gosh..im very sorry

    Im so sorry to hear that. I guess that is our worst nightmare, but, I know I can say this, but it doesnt take away the pain, is that you are better than that, and you deserve happiness! You don't deserve a guy that will use and abuse you....you will see, w/ the weight loss , your confidence will boost up and you will realise you can do so much better than that! I will send positive thoughts your way!

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    I don't even know what to say - ...
    Hi, I'm Roc & I'm on the weight loss rollercoaster as well as a 42 yr. old - mother of 3 year old twins. An entirely different rollercoaster
    1/9/08 228
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    He's obviously an idiot....
    Your sense of humor even through your pain and bitterness made me feel good, because that lets me know that you are strong enough to pull through this...
    you're gonna be just fine, girl...
    keep your chin up and know that you are worth and deserve so much better than that mofo...
    we're here if you need to vent...
    SW: 290lbs 3/31/08
    4/1/08: 290lbs (Started Phen)
    4/4/08: 280lbs (-10lbs!)
    4/15/08: 275lbs (-15lbs )
    4/22/08: 274lbs (-16lbs)
    4/29/08: 271lbs (-19lbs)
    5/6/08: 268lbs (-22lbs) Hooray! First mini goal passed!!!
    5/13/08: 267lbs (-23lbs) Off phen and poor food choices...
    5/20/08: 264lbs (-26lbs) Woohoo!
    6/3/08: 260lbs (-30lbs) WOOTWOOT!!!
    6/10/08: 256lbs (-34lbs) YAY!
    6/24/08: 251lbs (-39lbs)
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    I am at such a loss for words. My hearts goes out to you.

    {{{{{{{Chrissie}}}}}}}}}}}
    HEIGHT 5' 10"
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    He will regret it. Most cheaters think that the grass is greener on the other side. But when reality sets in he will regret everything. Especially all of the things that you have done for him. There is no way he will be able to forget about that. There are not too many women out there who will treat him the way that you did. But it's his loss.


    I can smell 155!!!!!!!!!!!!:spider_red:

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    Quote Originally Posted by BronzyBella View Post
    Yeah...I've been there...and you do see results ...but your heart hardends
    First of all he is going to really be feeling it in a week, 2 weeks tops, because he won't have you there to do all of those things for him. Not to mention he will be eating his words once you reach your goal. F.uck him...concentrate on yourself to make yourself better and more whole. Use this as your drive to continue to make your life better. And you know what, I'm happy you found out he was an *** cause now you can be open to meet the perfect guy you are supposed to be with.
    I couldnt have said it better my self.

    So sorry youre having a bad time.

    Thinking of you
    xx


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