I hate to do this...

**lcarter01** · March 18th, 2010, 09:47 PM

So I know this is not the place to complain and cry but I have to vent...me and my BF for over 12 years just broke up and he moved out. We were not doing good at all, we argued all the time and we were even sleeping in seperate rooms so it was like the best thing for us right...but Im sitting here looking at his empty closet and trying to tell our 7 year old why daddy left...and I just want to scream! I also want to eat..something, anything, everything! I know after a while I will get used to this but this is going to be a loooong night!

**Kelliee** · March 18th, 2010, 09:52 PM

Hey Lcarter --

So sorry to hear you are down and going through this. Twelve years is a long time and I am sure despite feeling like you were growing apart...it's hard. Just hang in there and do the best you can. Probably the last thing that seems important to you right now is staying on task with your diet plan but if you have to eat....try and do the best you can to minimize the damage. I hope its not too long of a night for you.

**herrweightloss** · March 18th, 2010, 10:20 PM

Originally Posted by lcarter01

So I know this is not the place to complain and cry but I have to vent...me and my BF for over 12 years just broke up and he moved out. We were not doing good at all, we argued all the time and we were even sleepiIng in seperate rooms so it was like the best thing for us right...but Im sitting here looking at his empty closet and trying to tell our 7 year old why daddy left...and I just want to scream! I also want to eat..something, anything, everything! I know after a while I will get used to this but this is going to be a loooong night!

Hey - that is what this forum is for....a place to write your frustrations, sadness, hopes, dreams, failings, insecurities - anything - down. I am sure you are not alone in having relationship problems. Right now what is top priority is taking care of yourself emotionally and your little one. Breaking your diet might give you some temporary reprieve from these issues - but if you are like me it will only make you feel worse once that initial satisfaction of eating is gone.

Take care and don't stress yourself out with the diet too much right now you have a lot on your plate.