[TishaO2]

So, I have been holding on to this Ralph Lauren Polo 2 piece swim suit for well over a year in the hopes that I will soon be able to fit into it. My best friend, who is bigger than I am, thinks that I should give it to her. She thinks that I won't lose the weight. Now, since I have moved to Vegas, I only see her about 4 times a year. The last time I saw her was in August and she claims that I didn't lose any weight. By this time, I had lost about 30 pounds and a dress size so I KNOW I had lost weight. So this broad brings up the swim suit again today. She saying "Oh, you should give it to me cuz you will never fit in it" and "Your boobs will not fit in the top so you gotta give it to me". She did the same thing with a dress of mine which I ended up giving her anyway because it was TOO BIG. So this hater is really starting to piss me off and I made it my obligation to fit into that d**n suit by the next time I go back home. Winter season or not, i'm wearing that swim suit. See people, this is your prime example of a pure 100% blooded, no knock-offs, no artificial additives, HATER. But it's cool, cuz when I wear that thing and rock it so hard that no one will be able to stand it, i'll be good.

[imabijou]

You go girl...show em what yer made of....Just get a hotel with a heated pool if it's winter when you go back home...bwahahahaha

[Jsmom]

Get it girl!!! Thats right show the haters it's not a game! I love it when you get to see the look of shock and disbelief on people's faces when you follow through on something you said you would, and that goes for anything.........not just weight loss.

You are gonna knock em dead with that bathing suit!!

[AuShucks]

I agree ! You are gonna work that damn suit !!

[Chiquita198126]

Sounds like you need a new best friend. That woman is just ugly for putting you down.and girl! I GIVE YOU MAD PROPS FOR BEING MORE MOTIVATED TO GET IN THAT SUIT!!!

YOU GO GIRL!

SUZ

[scatanafas]

tell Miss Thang to buy her own damn clothes! maybe she can go to the salvation army and pick up some moth ball smellin' ghetto stank bathing suit to match her unsupportive attitude...shoot.....

I would give that swimsuit to charity befo' giving it to her a s s......I woldn't give her the satisfaction. real friends don't act like that.

[Vixena99]

What doe the bathing suit look like? I bought a 2 piece ralph lauren suit at TJMaxx on clearance for like 10 bucks.....I bought it smaller on purpose, to give me motivation. and it's so pretty, they had it in black but I got the white one, nice material, the bottoms are plain and the top is a halter tankini like thing with pretty eyelits......Anyway my sis said the same thing to me pretty much, but nicer. She was like "Oh I like that suit, and it's my size, if you can't wear it next year can I have it?" I said....."The only way I won't be able t wear it next year is if it's too big." hahaha......

[allylynn]

Ditch the girl...keep the suit. Then when you fit into the suit show your hot self off to her in the suit and announce that there is no way that she can look nearly as good in it as you. Seriously, get this chick outta your life! You can lose some serious weight when you lose her. What is she about 200 lbs?

[SassySessa]

Sounds to me that she is just jealous of you!!! So she is trying to make you feel as bad as she feels inside!! You look SMOKING HOT and shes gonna eat her words (and probably a whole cheesecake, if shes anything like me when Im depressed) when she sees you in that suit!!!

[sleventis]

GGGRRRR....women are such catty as* bi-a-tches....why oh why cant she just get past her own issues and be happy and supportive to you.....jealousy is a evil little booger.....sounds as though her problems are just that....hers...dont let her bring her down....you rock it out...and make sure and get a pair of kick a s s heels to wear with that suit....

[Glenna M]

With a friend like that you don't need enemies! I bet you are going to look awesome in that suit, and when it gets too small be sure to send it to her with a picture of you wearing it!

[moanie77]

Originally Posted by TishaO2

So, I have been holding on to this Ralph Lauren Polo 2 piece swim suit for well over a year in the hopes that I will soon be able to fit into it. My best friend, who is bigger than I am, thinks that I should give it to her. She thinks that I won't lose the weight. Now, since I have moved to Vegas, I only see her about 4 times a year. The last time I saw her was in August and she claims that I didn't lose any weight. By this time, I had lost about 30 pounds and a dress size so I KNOW I had lost weight. So this broad brings up the swim suit again today. She saying "Oh, you should give it to me cuz you will never fit in it" and "Your boobs will not fit in the top so you gotta give it to me". She did the same thing with a dress of mine which I ended up giving her anyway because it was TOO BIG. So this hater is really starting to piss me off and I made it my obligation to fit into that d**n suit by the next time I go back home. Winter season or not, i'm wearing that swim suit. See people, this is your prime example of a pure 100% blooded, no knock-offs, no artificial additives, HATER. But it's cool, cuz when I wear that thing and rock it so hard that no one will be able to stand it, i'll be good.

Dang! With friends like that who needs enemies?! She is obviously green with envy over your weight loss. When you fit into that suit you should take a picture of yourself in it at the beach & sent it to her in a card.

[VenusEnvy23]

Yeah, I'm going through the same thing only not as *****y. My best friend, well oldest friend anyway, met 18 years ago, came and visited me this weekend. We live six hours away from each other. Now, I last saw her in May and have lost 25 pounds since then. She said not one word about my weight loss. Okay, whatever, she's a big girl too, and 25 lbs isnt all that much, but still noticable in my face. Beside, my skin is looking better, I'm finally developing a waist, and my attitude all around has improved since then with all the healthy changes I'm making. She tried telling me she's a size smaller than I am, yet the shirts that are big on me, are tight on her. Then, this upsets me the most and I don't know why, but Monday we got all dolled up and went shopping, got supper etc. and I was looking cute in more form fitting clothes and everything and she didn't try to take my picture until today when I was in a grubby stained tshirt and sweats with dirty hair and makeup smudges. Wtf? I said, uh-uh, what the hell? Why you trying to take my picture now? She replied that she wouldn't show anyone. Ummm, I never thought she would show anyone, I just didn't want my picture taken while I look like a hoodrat. So... who was she going to show my picture to? I know it's her, not me. I was hoping for a little more support from her. But I guess I'm going to have to depend on y'all for that.