oh, I just love you. You and I are in the exact same boat. I too am 5'8" and was at 170 last week. I didn't start my ticker thing until 167 though. I am a little irritated though because you look much thinner than I do. Ok, younger and more energetic too. hahah.
I don't like the minimizer bras because I feel like they make me look wide and flat. My favorite new bra is by champion (style 1550) and it is a no bounce work out bra but is rather pretty and is seamless. I wear it every day and wash it at night. I found a website,
www.titlenine.com that sells sports bras by strength. It is a funny system but it makes sense. They have 1 barbell bras with no support up to 5 barbell bras that they say are guaranteed never to bounce at all! THe 2 I have bought were 4 barbells and really really good support. They are a little pricey (35-45.00) but worth it. I threw all my other bras away.
I hear you can breast feed after a breast reduction surgery but really am not positive. I wouldn't risk that unless I was sure. I nursed both my girls and loved it. There's just nothing like that time and bond.
Oh, well, hope someone has some ideas for us!