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Eva got-a-big-ole-butt · September 12th, 2004, 11:00 AM

Someone pleeeeese talk me out of eating everything in the cabinet!

Just when I was having this awesome day yesterday - someone had to emotionally kick me in the face.

I feel like everything I have done to make this person's life pleasant was all in vain because my actions mean NOTHING!

This person has attempted apologizing but I am unwilling to accept it.

My soul is numb.

My heart is empty.

Paula · September 12th, 2004, 11:10 AM

eva(hug)

think into the future, to the moment you just finished eating everyhting... you will still feel like crap afterwards...PLUS you will feel even more crappy because you will be adding up all the calories and fat grams...and kicking yourself for it...i know. i did it yesterday

hang in there~!

*Becky* · September 12th, 2004, 11:23 AM

Eva -

Luv you!!

Ponytail · September 12th, 2004, 11:24 AM

Hi, Eva. Didn't want to read this and not reply. What happened? What's getting you down?

Do you suffer from depression, or was this a one-off event that got to you?

Ugh, I don't have any great advice, I'm afraid. I suffer from depression, so I do understand how horrid it can be when you feel out of control of your thoughts and actions because of something that's happened or what someone's said.

A phrase I've had quoted to me, and that I'm finally beginning to believe (!) is:
this too will pass.

I hope you're doing ok

missus · September 12th, 2004, 12:02 PM

Hey Eva, it will be all right girl. Sometimes we get disappointment in life, especially with our friends, acquaintences, relatives, etc. But in the end, we still love them. So whatever happened, is not worth the anguish of eating the cabinet.

YOu have been an inspiration to many of us here, and I know everyone can get a weak moment, but be strong. U can do it.

Missus

BE BLESSED

VA Girl · September 12th, 2004, 01:40 PM

Stay strong Eva.

You're an inspiration for many of us. I too know what it's like to continuously try to help someone but feel like they totally don't appreciate it. Whatever you do, don't change. Your kindness does not go unnoticed, even if it sometimes feels that way.

Heaven Sent · September 12th, 2004, 01:42 PM

im sorry sweety ((((hugggggs)))

G u m b y · September 12th, 2004, 02:05 PM

I wuv you eva

I'm sure the person who hurt you loves you more.

Don't just eat to feel better...cause you KNOW it won't work.

Hang in there. It'll get better!

CarolinaGirl · September 12th, 2004, 02:11 PM

I'm sorry that you got your feelings hurt sweetie.

I've been sort of down myself the past few days and tomorrow is going to be HORRIBLE for me. We will get through it though. Hang in there girl, you aren't alone.

Ph@t · September 12th, 2004, 02:22 PM

Eva- I know exactly how you feel. I feel this way about my mother on a daily basis. I'm sorry you're going through this, I know it svcks

Hope you find a way to feel better about the situation.

Sheri · September 12th, 2004, 02:30 PM

Eva, it will be ok People always will disappoint you sooner or later their just not perfect. I am sorry you feel bad. STAY OUT OF THE CUBBOARD Go for a nice walk or put some jammin tunes in a walkman and walk it off. Hang in there.

heartland · September 12th, 2004, 02:38 PM

Eva

books&stuff lover · September 12th, 2004, 05:05 PM

Hi Eva

Hope you are feeling a lot BETTER... Life sometimes can give us reasons to feel down and out, but HEY! You can rise above all these...

As a Mom, I feel that I am always the one who needs to be strong and be there for my family. One day I asked my daughter, "Who will be the one to take care of me when I am down and all the energy has been ****ed out of me?" She looked at me said, "Ma, don't ask for that to happen"

Take time to relax and for a few hours pull yourself from the place and situation which brought you down.... You'll come back with a renewed or sometimes different perspective.

Hugs your way------ EVA!

Determined1-- derland here I come · September 12th, 2004, 05:09 PM

keep your head up. Eating all that food won't make you feel any better. (unless you have some homemade chocolate chip cookies, they always make me feel better) But eating won't solve any problems, just make you feel worse. I hope you are able to work things out and find it in your heart to accept the apology so you can begin to heal.

madkins1222 · September 13th, 2004, 04:05 AM

Get out of the pantry Eva! If you can leave the donuts alone, you can do anything.

FocusedOnFitness · September 13th, 2004, 04:17 AM

Eva, you are loved here, woman. People make mistakes. Forgiveness is more of ourselves than to the recipient. It's a way to move on and let go. You need that now.

September 12th, 2004, 12:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	Hey Eva, it will be all right girl. Sometimes we get disappointment in life, especially with our friends, acquaintences, relatives, etc. But in the end, we still love them. So whatever happened, is not worth the anguish of eating the cabinet. YOu have been an inspiration to many of us here, and I know everyone can get a weak moment, but be strong. U can do it. Missus BE BLESSED Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

September 12th, 2004, 02:30 PM	#11 (permalink)
Sheri Silver Phenster Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Nebraska Posts: 559 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 210 Goal Weight: 145-150	Eva, it will be ok People always will disappoint you sooner or later their just not perfect. I am sorry you feel bad. STAY OUT OF THE CUBBOARD Go for a nice walk or put some jammin tunes in a walkman and walk it off. Hang in there. My giving has to be more important then what I have.

September 12th, 2004, 05:05 PM	#13 (permalink)
books&stuff lover Bronze Phenster Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Philippines Posts: 274 Lost Weight: 18 lbs. 07/23/04 Current Weight: 153 lbs. 04/01/04 Goal Weight: 130 lbs.	Hi Eva Hope you are feeling a lot BETTER... Life sometimes can give us reasons to feel down and out, but HEY! You can rise above all these... As a Mom, I feel that I am always the one who needs to be strong and be there for my family. One day I asked my daughter, "Who will be the one to take care of me when I am down and all the energy has been ****ed out of me?" She looked at me said, "Ma, don't ask for that to happen" Take time to relax and for a few hours pull yourself from the place and situation which brought you down.... You'll come back with a renewed or sometimes different perspective. Hugs your way------ EVA! books&stuff lover Height 5'4 HW-156 lbs. 135 lbs. -07/04 144 lbs. -06/30/05 GW-130 (when oh, when???)

September 12th, 2004, 11:00 AM	#1 (permalink)
Eva got-a-big-ole-butt Brunette BarbieDoll Phenster! Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Annapolis,MD Posts: 3,294 Lost Weight: 95 Current Weight: 155 Goal Weight: 135	Someone pleeeeese talk me out of eating everything in the cabinet! Just when I was having this awesome day yesterday - someone had to emotionally kick me in the face. I feel like everything I have done to make this person's life pleasant was all in vain because my actions mean NOTHING! This person has attempted apologizing but I am unwilling to accept it. My soul is numb. My heart is empty.

September 12th, 2004, 11:10 AM	#2 (permalink)
Paula Diamond Phenster Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: northern CA Posts: 3,519 Lost Weight: this time round,lol...20lbs Current Weight: 135 Goal Weight: 115	eva(hug) think into the future, to the moment you just finished eating everyhting... you will still feel like crap afterwards...PLUS you will feel even more crappy because you will be adding up all the calories and fat grams...and kicking yourself for it...i know. i did it yesterday hang in there~!

September 12th, 2004, 11:23 AM	#3 (permalink)
Becky Gold Phenster Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 3,809 Lost Weight: 14 Current Weight: 158 lbs. Goal Weight: 140	Eva - Luv you!!

September 12th, 2004, 11:24 AM	#4 (permalink)
Ponytail Phen Newbie Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: UK Posts: 8 Lost Weight: O! Current Weight: 129 lbs Goal Weight: 105 lbs	Hi, Eva. Didn't want to read this and not reply. What happened? What's getting you down? Do you suffer from depression, or was this a one-off event that got to you? Ugh, I don't have any great advice, I'm afraid. I suffer from depression, so I do understand how horrid it can be when you feel out of control of your thoughts and actions because of something that's happened or what someone's said. A phrase I've had quoted to me, and that I'm finally beginning to believe (!) is: this too will pass. I hope you're doing ok

September 12th, 2004, 01:40 PM	#6 (permalink)
VA Girl Silver Phenster Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 263 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Stay strong Eva. You're an inspiration for many of us. I too know what it's like to continuously try to help someone but feel like they totally don't appreciate it. Whatever you do, don't change. Your kindness does not go unnoticed, even if it sometimes feels that way.

September 12th, 2004, 01:42 PM	#7 (permalink)
Heaven Sent Genius is nothing but a great aptitude for patience. George-Louis de Buffon Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Charlotte, nc Posts: 5,701 Lost Weight: 65 Current Weight: 196 Goal Weight: 165	im sorry sweety ((((hugggggs)))

September 12th, 2004, 02:05 PM	#8 (permalink)
G u m b y Platinum Queen Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the lou Posts: 2,294 Lost Weight: 15 Current Weight: 150 Goal Weight: 125-130	I wuv you eva I'm sure the person who hurt you loves you more. Don't just eat to feel better...cause you KNOW it won't work. Hang in there. It'll get better!

September 12th, 2004, 02:11 PM	#9 (permalink)
CarolinaGirl Diamond Phenster Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: NC Posts: 4,609 Lost Weight: 39 Current Weight: 176 Goal Weight: 150	I'm sorry that you got your feelings hurt sweetie. I've been sort of down myself the past few days and tomorrow is going to be HORRIBLE for me. We will get through it though. Hang in there girl, you aren't alone.

September 12th, 2004, 02:22 PM	#10 (permalink)
Ph@t Milkshake Phensta Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 8,834 Lost Weight: 30 lbs Current Weight: too much Goal Weight: 170	Eva- I know exactly how you feel. I feel this way about my mother on a daily basis. I'm sorry you're going through this, I know it svcks Hope you find a way to feel better about the situation.

September 12th, 2004, 02:38 PM	#12 (permalink)
heartland Silver Phenster Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 2,246 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Eva

September 12th, 2004, 05:09 PM	#14 (permalink)
Determined1-- derland here I come Chocolate-a-holic Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Maryland Posts: 3,263 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 218.4 Goal Weight: 175	keep your head up. Eating all that food won't make you feel any better. (unless you have some homemade chocolate chip cookies, they always make me feel better) But eating won't solve any problems, just make you feel worse. I hope you are able to work things out and find it in your heart to accept the apology so you can begin to heal.

September 13th, 2004, 04:05 AM	#15 (permalink)
madkins1222 Go ahead, make my day! Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 2,085 Lost Weight: 27 Current Weight: sw 177/ cw143 Goal Weight: 140	Get out of the pantry Eva! If you can leave the donuts alone, you can do anything.

September 13th, 2004, 04:17 AM	#16 (permalink)
FocusedOnFitness Dancing Machine Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: East Coast Posts: 4,141 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 200 Goal Weight: 160	Eva, you are loved here, woman. People make mistakes. Forgiveness is more of ourselves than to the recipient. It's a way to move on and let go. You need that now.