no one belittled becky-becky asked for opinions and she got them. while i never said fit that your child was unhappy, don't you suggest that my children are unhappy either, or that i don't know what i'm talking about simply because i've been married for 12 years.
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[ July 07, 2004, 10:20 AM: Message edited by: LivingLighterIn2003 ]
Originally posted by LivingLighterIn2003:
Fit, I may not believe in God, but I am certainly not going to curse you out in return. If this is Christian behavior, let me have none of it.
I never said any of the things you implied regarding Becky and a "revolving" door. I agree with Mad regarding Becky getting upset when the married women had a difference of opinion.
By the way, I said I was non-Christian and never did I say I didn't believe in God. You must know there are other religions out there for people who believe in God and are not Christian. If not, now you do.
As for my happiness and take this anyway you want, I believe I've reached a point in my life that you just haven't, which has nothing to do with the belief in a Christian God and everything to do with an unwavering belief in myself.
JBABY I DONT EVEN FLUCK WITH YOU LIKE THAT I'M REFERRING TO THOSE WHO CALLED ME OUT
I HAVE BEEN SUPPORTIVE ALOT TO ALOT OF PEOPLE ON HERE AND I'LL BE DAMN IF I'M INSULTED WHETHER YOU THINK YOU WEREN'T IMPLYING ANYTHING OR NOT YES SHE ASKED FOR OPINIONS BUT CHIT DRAGGED ON AND ON AND NOONE NEEDS THAT CHIT!
AND AS FAR AS CHRISTIAN BEHAVIOR YOUR IGNORANT TO EVEN SAY SOMETHING DUMB LIKE THAT!
I DONT GIVE A fluck YALL SAY AND DO WHAT YOU WILL
BUT ADVICE IS ONE THING AND JUDGEING TO A POINT WHERE IT'S INSULTING IS ANOTHER
HOW WOULD YOU LIKE ME TO TURN YOUR SMILE INTO A FROWN AND YOU TELL ME OH I'M ENGAGED AND I SAY HOLD ON TO THE RECEIPT OF THE RING CAUSE IT MIGHT NOT LAST!
FURTHER MORE
FLUCK IT!
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I missed the part about my children because you write in capitals, FIT, and leave out puncuation as well so it's hard to follow.
I hate to brag, but where does my choice to not be a Christian leave my kids? How about the principal's list in school, popular, loved, and well-educated at home and in school?
My son is a Christian, my daughter is not. They both are deeply spiritual, good children. You don't need to push religion on your children to have decent children, you simply need to lead by example.
How old are your children, Becky?
Unfortunately, the way I view it, ating isnt quite the same when you have children. Stability and consistency are so important, to any child, but more so the younger child.
Becky thanks I was wondering what u meant. I feel u. I used to do that long time ago with coming here to the board all the time. I took a step back. If its consuming you, just take a lil step back, if u see it becoming a problem.
Fit when I find the right words I will pm u later. But now the only thing I can do is hold my head down in shame. Dont let anyone on this board/in life, make u stoop to this level
[ July 07, 2004, 10:49 AM: Message edited by: health4life ]
That is the jist of it - this was supposed to be an upbeat, "good for you" kind of post. It has totally left a bad taste in my mouth and I know you can say I asked for it all you want, but it just suucks that it has turned into bashing each other. I'm really sorry I started it and I'm going to go into recluse now
p.s. my kids are 12, 10 and 8.
Well, it's nice to know that we can have a mature and productive debate without all the cursing and threats.
Thanks Fit for the enlightening conversation.
I always learn a new curse word everyday thanks to your lengthly vocabulary.
The interesting part of this is, I didn't have to mention any names, because you called yourself out. Defensiveness is usually a sign of guilt.
NOW SEE EMMA YOU ARE DEFENDING THE CHOICE YOU MADE AND THATS YOUR RIGHT!
SO IF BECKY IS DEFENDING HERS AND ME AND OTHERS ARE TOO WHAT MAKES IT WRONG?
I PROVED MY POINT!
DONT MES WITH A NEUROPHYSIOLOGY MAJOR AND I MIGHT NOT USE PUNCTUATION AND CAPITALS BECAUSE I'M NOT BE GRADED
SO DONT BE FUNNY
I'M SO EDUCATED SWEETY TO THE POINT WHERE YOU COULD NEVER COMPREHEND
ALOT OF PEOPLE ON HERE ARE SO QUICK TO STATE WHAT THEY DO AND DONT DO LIKE THEIR LIVES ARE PERFECT AND THEIR HUSBANDS OR BOYFRIENDS ARE FLAWLESS
WHAT IF HE WAS CHEATING OR BEATING YOU OR HAD AN ADDICTION
DO YOU THINK IT WOULD BE FAIR TO SAY YOU ARE A DUMB ***** for staying or talking to you like you actually care
PERFECTION IS PERCEPTION BUT EXPERIENCE IS REALITY'S LESSON
IT'S ALL WHAT YOU ARE WILLING TO DEAL WITH IN LIFE
BUT WHEN YOU COMMENT ON PEOPLES KIDS WHETHER YOU THINK IT'S RIGHT OR WRONG THEY COME TO DEFENSE AND THAT IS NATURAL FOR A MOTHER
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YOUR RIGHT HEALTH
AND MADKINS SWEETY GO TO ANGER MANANAGEMENT CAUSE THE WORLD IS NOT YOUR ENEMY
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Food for thought
*STOP PUTTING YOUR BUSINESS OUT* then no one can judge u.
Lastly if u have to. Be ready for whatever comment is coming your way
ugggh typos
[ July 07, 2004, 12:19 PM: Message edited by: health4life ]
IT MUST BE TIME FOR ME TO GO
I HATE TO BUT I HAVE TO LEAVE THIS SITE!
I HOPE EVERYONE REACHES THEIR WEIGHTLOSS GOALS AND ANYTHING THEY WANT OUT OF LIFE
PEACE TO EVERYONE AND IT WAS GREAT ALL OF YOU
starting weight august of 2007 ,250
cw:185 pounds
goal weight: 150
No longer on phentermine since august of 2007.
*STOP PUTTING YOUR BUSINESS OUT*
the best advice anyone has posted, Dionne
Yep Health, you're right and I learned my valuable lesson I think finally. Sometimes it takes me a while... I guess I thought this forum was a little different than it actually is.
So hopefully this point comes across clear in case someone thinks they have to tell me again: I know that I should not post my personal sh!t if I'm not ready to receive judgment, bla, bla, bla....No disrespect intended. I'm just done
Carry on because I'm leaving this 'room'..... (Fit - you can't leave)
See, if you would stop all the ranting and raving fit, you would know that I'm not angry. I'm a well rounded and educated adult. I learn from my negative experiences, and they make me strong not weak. I don't give excuses for my behavior, I give reasons. My reason for these opinions are based solely on experience. You forget, I have alot of experience with a needy mother, and I have the emotional scars to prove it. My mother was so concerned about finding someone, that she forgot the people who were already there for her.
If you take offense to my posts, then stop reading them. I never attacked anyone, I made a judgement call according to the previous threads and posts that Fit and Becky have written. The loneliness is very obvious, and I'm affraid you won't be happy if you throw yourself at every Tom, D!ck, and Harry you meet. Men don't have any respect for needy, single mothers whom are looking for a new daddy for their children.
Don't be so available, and you might find someone who'll stick around after the infatuation period is over.
Fit - I'm with you. I really cannot take all these subliminal digs. Women are brilliant creatures I'll give you that, but sure can play dirty. I don't want to contribute to the bashing, but I think you have more integrity than any of these people here. You see the whole picture and that's a gift. I say we don't answer another post and let the wild animals eat on each other for a while....
Becky, you are a sad, sad person. You will be happy one day, but it'll take a wake up call. Find youself, and you'll find love. Love yourself, and then someone will have a reason to love you back.
So u saying Fit has more integrity because she said what u wanted to hear? I think its foul that u would call all of us wild animals. They're giving u advice/opinions. You dont have to listen to it, if u dont want to.
There are two things u can do with it. Listen to it or respect it.
Anyway i'm done. I see this post is getting nowhere. Getting pretty ugly up in here
Jbaby
[ July 07, 2004, 11:11 AM: Message edited by: health4life ]
becky, i'm sorry, but i didn't see any "animals" in here "playing dirty". there were people who's opinions simply were not what you wanted to hear. because fit agreed with you, she was not one of the "animals". you are doing exactly what you criticize-closing your mind to opions different to your own. do yourself a favor-use a mirror when you need affirmation. this is a good place to be for support, but it doesn't mean we all have to agree with you.
I agree Health, but if I got MAD about the insults, then I might need anger management.
Just look at it this way, if it wasn't true, you wouldn't get so upset. It's hard looking in the mirror, when it's your worst enemy looking back.
I AM GOING TO SAY THIS MUCH
WHEN I LOOK IN THE MIRROR I SEE SOMEONE WONDERFUL
SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH MORE IN MY 28YRS THEN MOST PEOPLE GO THROUGH IN A LIFETIME
AND I AM YOUNG AND GIFTED WITH REASON AND COMPASSION AND NOBODY CAN EVER TAKE THAT AWAY FROM ME
YOU CAN SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT
AND I HOPE YOUR MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS DO LAST FOREVER
BUT BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS NOT SETTLED DOWN DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE SAD OR IT'S INFACTUATION IT JUST MEANS THEY HAVE NOT FOUND THE RIGHT ONE
YOU MAY HAVE TO KISS A MILLION FROGS BEFORE YOU FIND YOUR PRINCE
I DONT THINK YOU ARE WILD ANIMALS BECAUSE I GREW TO KNOW AND LOVE EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU DESPITE OF YOUR FAULTS
I DIDN'T AGREE WITH BECKY BECAUSE THATS WHAT SHE WANTED HEAR BUT BECAUSE I UNDERSTAND AND EMPATHIZE
AND EVEN THOUGH WE HAVE SOME THINGS IN COMMON WE ALSO ARE VERY DIFFERENT
AND IF I'M LABLED AS LOOSE BECAUSE I AM STILL SEARCHING FOR LOVE IT'S BECAUSE I HAVEN'T BEEN LUCKY TO FIND SOMEONE SPECIAL LIKE YOU ALL HAVE
I AM SORRY FOR BEING MEAN AND INSULTING BECAUSE THATS NOT RIGHT AND IT'S NOT ME
WITH THAT I CAN SAY I'M SORRY TO ALL
AND IF I NEVER APPEAR ON THIS SITE AGAIN YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT EVERYTIME I ANSWERED POST I ANSWERED FROM THE HEART
GOODBYE FRIENDS
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cw:185 pounds
goal weight: 150
No longer on phentermine since august of 2007.
ugggh nevermind
Fit I wish u the best too
[ July 07, 2004, 12:55 PM: Message edited by: health4life ]
GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!!!
The shortest distance between a problem and a solution is the distance between your knees and the floor.
Fit, I don't mind your insults regarding my children, my lack of God in my life, or my education. I feel secure enough in all of them not to have to compete with you on any life.
I'm secure in my family, my knowledge, and my spirituality. As for leaving the board, how many times have you said you would now? It's obvious you're not leaving and I find your un-Christianlike behavior exact proof for my own point ... religion doesn't equal ethics. Period.
As for being animals, Becky, well, what can someone really say to that type of silly insult?
You put your life out here daily to be hashed over by the board and then pout when you don't get the desired response.
Someone mentioned finding affirmation in the mirror. I couldn't agree more!
Becky,
I am happy that things are going so well wiht your boyfriend! It's a wonderful feeling. I didn't read this whole thread because I don't like to get caught up in the middle of it. I suggest you do the same....If YOU are happy with him who cares what others think.
Fit,
You have a heart bigger than anyone else I know. I haven't talked to you in a while so I hope things are going okay in your world. Please don't leave.
I'm not here everyday so I don't read most of the posts you do. When I read the first post I notice that she is just trying to share her feelings with all of us. Even though it's only been 3 weeks, she's in love with this guy and wanted to share it with us. What is so wrong with that?? I don't see how that can turn into such a fight.You put your life out here daily to be hashed over by the board and then pout when you don't get the desired response
Can't we all just get along!
I know how. Once a month like clockwork it happens on this board.I don't see how that can turn into such a fight.
It seems like that's always the time that I stop in, too!
Hey guys, I decided to peek in one more time and just apologize if I was a little harsh. It just felt like things were getting out of hand and it really frustrated me. I didn't start this thread to get advice on how to raise my children; I think I have that one covered pretty well. I started it as a conversation starter to talk about love. I'm really sorry it turned into a hate thread. Hope you accept my apology... I've been spending too much time here anyway and need to get on with my life. Good luck to everyone.
PEACE
I am all for getting along, but the fight started here when both Becky and Fit began calling names. This is when the discussion went south. I am not upset in the least with either of them though regardless of the name calling because it's just not important in the grand scheme of things.Originally posted by Beautyonlyontheinside:
I'm not here everyday so I don't read most of the posts you do. When I read the first post I notice that she is just trying to share her feelings with all of us. Even though it's only been 3 weeks, she's in love with this guy and wanted to share it with us. What is so wrong with that?? I don't see how that can turn into such a fight.quote:
You put your life out here daily to be hashed over by the board and then pout when you don't get the desired response
Can't we all just get along!
I am here to live a better life, to lose weight, to get healthy ... the rest of it is just not as important.
Beauty & Blippo, I am not on my period, nor did I start a fight. Last time I reread my posts, I was telling the truth as I saw it. Just an opinion. No name calling, no cursing, no fight picking, or any rash movements.
Just thought I'd speak up in case I was being blamed again.
[ July 07, 2004, 02:45 PM: Message edited by: madkins1222 ]
EMMA IT'S FUNNY I APOLOGISED AND YET YOU CONTINUE TO THROW STONES SO WHO IS THE BIGGER PERSON?
AND IF YOU REREAD THE THREAD NO INSULTS WERE MADE UNTIL YOU AND MADKINS DECIDED TO MAKE COMMENTS TOWARDS MYSELF
I DID NOT INSULT AT FIRST I MADE A STATEMENT SUCH AS YOU DID AND OBVIOUSLY YOU WERE OFFENDED BECAUSE YOU REPLIED
I NEVER INSULTED YOUR CHILDREN OR ANYBODY ELSES ETHICS OR MORALS OF RAISING THEIR CHILDREN UNTIL YOU AND MADKINS ATTACKED
AND I GUESS IT'S OK FOR YOU AND ANYBODY ELSE TO WORRY ABOUT BECKY'S KIDS BEING AFFECTED BUT IT'S NOT OK FOR SOMEONE TO SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOURS?
A CONTRADICTION SWEETY
AND BEING A CHRISTIAN IS NOT ABOUT WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH BUT WHATS IN YOUR HEART AND IF YOU HAD FAITH IN GOD YOU WOULD KNOW THAT
THANKYOU HEALTH AND BEAUTY AND OTHERS
MADKINS SWEETY YOU HAVE BEEN RUDE AND NASTY TO JUST ABOUT EVERYBODY ON THIS BOARD AND IF THATS YOUR DEFINITION OF BEING HAPPY THEN THEN I'M JUST THE OPPOSITE!TAKE CARE LUV
BLIPPO I LUV YOU CAUSE YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN EXTRA KIND TO ME
JBABY I NEVER COMMENTED TOWARDS YOU SO I'M NOT SURE WHY YOU ATTACKED!
IT SEEMS THAT THE MAJORITY IS THE MORAL POLICE SO YOU GUYS WIN!
AND CONTRARY TO WHAT YOU MAY THINK EMMA I'M AM DONE WITH THE BOARD !
THOSE WHO HAVE MY NUMBER AND EMAIL KNOW HOW TO REACH ME
starting weight august of 2007 ,250
cw:185 pounds
goal weight: 150
No longer on phentermine since august of 2007.
Why is everything an attack? Last time I checked it was called constructive critisism.
Rude? Nasty? If that's what you call the truth, than I guess you're right. Sorry for being so rude and nasty, next time I'll tell you what you so desire to hear. F@$K, SH!T, Damn, and motherf*cker. Is that better dear, can you relate to me now?
I'm sorry you're so lonely Tiff. I hope you find someone to wash that mouth out for you.
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