Do you like good girls or bad girls?

[ck]

For the sake of fairness to the guys. Good, Bad, or what mixture? Oh ... and girls or women?

[Amy T]

Well bad girls ofcourse...LOL.. this is a great post CK.

[Ph@t]

And what's your preference CK?

[ck]

I will post later, could be a long answer, and I need to head out the door to start my *cursed* one hour commute.

[*Becky*]

You're right CK, I was thinking that when I posted - I should have said good boys/girls or bad boys/girls.... Can't wait to hear your answer! (although I'm not sure what I'd classify myself as - good or bad)
-Becky

[kenswoobie]

I like good girls with slightly bad attitudes. C or DD firm breasts and a nice smile.
Jae

[*Becky*]

Jae - Jewell is A-DORA-BLE!!!! And I meet that criteria perfectly! No wonder you chose me to be your biatch...

[califmtbguy]

Guys are complex creatures and tend to not be influenced by something as superficial as a good girl/bad girl image. We tend to look beyond the surface and not allow ourselves to become wrapped up in cookie-cutter stereotypes. We recognize that each person, good or bad, has something to offer a relationship and to be confined to one type of person would be limiting the experience of both the man and the woman.

[missus]

[ April 27, 2004, 11:51 AM: Message edited by: missus ]

[*Becky*]

Cali - okay.......... That all sounds good in theory. But to say that "men" in general feel this way would be assuming way too much I think. (CK- is this your feeling?) Good answer though!

[Heaven Sent]

hmmmm I actually go for the men, but IF I were a guy I'd go for the good girls. 5'10 brown hair, brown eyes and nice personality.

[Eva got-a-big-ole-butt]

Like Ludacris says:

"I wanna Lady on the street but a Freak in da' bed!"

[ck]

Not being as potically correct as cali(cause I'm at least throwing out a simple answer), but agreeing with what he says in general. The whole bad/good thing is an influence and not a rigid thing. And it really depends on the definitions of good and bad. So because it actually could be quite complex, i'm giving the simple answer.

My simple answer ...

If you are talking about superfical looks, the "head turning" factor. The bad girl look catches my eye just a little bit more readily.

As for in a relationship, I'd say bad girl in the bedroom (of course, Eva), bad girl in humor, and nice girl in most everything else.

70% good / 30% bad.

[ April 27, 2004, 07:38 PM: Message edited by: ck ]

[-mekinism-]

really depends on what you mean.

whats a 'bad girl' image? a slut? or a b*tch? a barefoot chick on a harly?

i usually prefer the quiet, unassuming, cute (but not super hot) type - that has a wild side of course.

[-mekinism-]

ck - sounds about right.

ps - yeah cali - whats up with that answer???

[ April 27, 2004, 01:37 PM: Message edited by: -mekinism- ]

[ck]

Mek, yep

Is the bad girl - the girl that breaks all the rules, shop lifts, steals, unfaithful, etc... etc... or just is wild, irreverant, and fun loving. Is a bad girl just a "freak in bed". Is bad girl someone who treats you badly, like sometimes get associated with the bad boy image?

And what is a good girl, responsible and career acheiver? Prim and proper church girl? Girl that repsects and treats you well?

That what i meant by hard to define. Bad/good means something different to everyone. I thought about it, will driving into work and realized unless i was willing to type a book (and I not), the simple answer would have to suffice.

[ April 27, 2004, 04:56 PM: Message edited by: ck ]

[RoxanneRoxanne]

[califmtbguy]

Mek - Well "big boobs and great butt" just didn't sound right.

I lean towards the good girls.

[Ted]

I tend to go for the good girls also but of course the bad ones always catches the eye...When I think of bad I think of a cursing, don't give a s**t what people say, wild livin' on the edge type of girl with a certain hotness to her. Basically Starr lol

Honestly the good girl in my mind is one that is responsible and treats people in a respectful way. It's one that cares not only about others but herself mostly. Bad girls can have these qualities too so I guess maybe I'm a little mixed. I think just about every guy likes a bad girl in the bedroom though...

Ted

[Babygirl78]

Dont mind me, I'm takin notes. lol

[runs with scissors]

Why can't you guys just say good or bad. Ya gotta get all complex.

[*Becky*]

Bethany - no doubt! Worse than women!!

[ck]

Actually it is simple, we like good and bad girls

[CasinoGirl]

eva you totally stole my line!!

a lady in public and a wh0re behind the door!!of course I can't say i have always been a lady in public, but I am definitely always a freeeaaak in the bedroom!! love that sick $hit!

As for the guys.. I don't think it really matters they just like girls!! well some of them anyway!

[Ted]

Becky says:
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in reality I think I like 60% bad boy, 40% good boy - but it also depends on WHAT exactly he's bad or good in. Some things could be irrelevant that he's good in and he might be bad in an area that I would prefer him to be good - I dunno. So, in summary, I'm not sure exactly what I prefer. I'm in a dazed and confused state right now
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hmmmm???? Guys got the complex? lol

Yes CK cleared it up we like both so we got it all covered eh

[Stayingstrong]

This is kind of funny because something was brought to my attention today... There is an older gentlemen that works where I work (I would say late 60's) well he reminds me of Santa (w/o the beard) anyways he had not shaved that morning looked "scruffy" and one of the boys made the comment that he needed to shave. He was standing next to me and I said it is kind of sexy. The boys jaws just dropped and I said what? They were like Ms Tammy you just seem all prim and proper!! I asked well what gave you that impression? They couldnt reply with an answer. It was kind of funny!! Don't ever judge a book by its cover boys....us prim and proper girls are really wild behind closed doors (lol) ~Tammy

[*Becky*]

Ted - you got me.... but I also DID say that women are COMPLEX creatures. Men are more.......um.....like....... simple minded?? LOL But I do agree with CK also.

[Amy T]

My husbands reply is: I like naughty girls, just like my wife. She isn't bad cause she doesn't get into trouble, she isn't good because she spends all her time on a frekkin board... lol

[ck]

I see the complex topic was to compliment our simple egos. Like patting a puppy on the head and saying "yeees ...you sooo smaaart aren't you boy. yes you are! yes you are!". lol

[Usually when a guy say a girl is complex, substitute the word "confused", and you have the real meaning -- The guys almanac p 22]

Seriously, guys and gals are just as complex and they have the same wants and needs. The manner in which we fufill our wants and needs differ slightly sometimes in my opinion.

cg, stop it with your bad girl humor (read never stop)

tammy, I have no doubts on that.

AmyT, thank him for the input that was pretty funny.

[ April 27, 2004, 10:27 PM: Message edited by: ck ]

[Ph@t]

I think Tammy Wynette said it best when she said "Ya gotta be a saint on Sunday mornin' and a devil on Saturday night....and that keeps your man around at night."

[ck]

I think some unnamed singer said, the most appopriate country song about women, went something like "You have to know how to hold them and know when to fold them". Umm ... now that i think about it, that does not sound appropriate at all. Sounds kinda dirty. But only country lyrics i know.

[Ph@t]

"know when to walk away.. know when to run". Who was that? Kenny Rogers maybe?

[ck]

possibly .. i just had mental image at the hold them and fold them, applied to girls not cards.

But the rest of the lyrics that you gave seem sometimes strangely apropos.

[RoxanneRoxanne]

You never count your money when you're sittin' at the table - I think it was Kenny Rogers (The Gambler)

[ck]

Arg .. you two absolutely ruined a subtle joke refering to snuggling and *ucking. Which means it probally was not funny in the first place, got to work on that. Ugh..