I know ALL men do this - either secretly or openly. Well my friend/bf does it VERY openly. It's almost as if he wants me to share in his enjoyment of the beauty of women or something. He says it so innocently that it almost doesn't bother me - even though I am a pretty jealous person. He says he just likes to look at beautiful women just like he likes to look at beautiful cars.... It just confuses me because I think to myself should I feel bad that I'm obviously not good enough to take his attention away from other women? Or should I feel good that he is honest about it? My ex-husband had me convinced that he never set an eye on another woman, but me.... but now I'm realizing that just was not true; all men look.... Just like all women look too. I know I do! So why should I have a double standard and not accept it that he looks, right? It just feels a little threatening... I dunno.