What's good for the goose is good for the gander!

[Stayingstrong]

Yesterday was open house for the kids at their new school. I wore a pair of capri's and a cute t-shirt it was like a sand/tan color outfit. Totally appropriate for where I was going. Anyways Mark went with us. We were going from classroom to classroom meeting teachers and then we got to Austin's Math teacher. He was really nice and good looking by the way.... I could tell he would only look at me when he talked about his class (not Mark) and he smiled alot and tried really hard to make eye contact... I caught him checking me out anyways Mark did too. He left the classroom in a tissy.... I left a few minutes later. Later that night Mark got pi$$y and asked if he was my boyfriend? I couldnt help but laugh. I was like I thought I was going to have to scrape the bottom of the barrel? (You know that is what he told me just a few days ago) Of course he is not my boyfriend, it was the first time I met the man. Mark was quick to point out he wasn't wearing a wedding band.... I told him how nice for you to notice I thought it was more intresting to learn he played baseball in college as a pitcher and played in the minor leagues My ego is sooooo boosted right now, gosh I needed that!! ~Tammy

[Ph@t]

Hahaha! SEE There! NOW WHAT?!

[rene76]

WHHHHHHHOOWHHHHHHHOOO GIRL! YOU GO! THAT CRACKS ME UP! WAY TO SHOW HIM! YOU CAN GET A GOOD MAN GIRL..YOU DON'T NEED THAT SNAKE!
~RENE'

[Eva got-a-big-ole-butt]

I wonder if he went back to the "love nest" took one look at "hoochie mama" & thought. . .

WTF was I thinking?

I FLUCKING LOVE IT!!!

[missus]

Unhun, yeah, I'm all that and more Mr. Mark.

Now what cha gotta say Mr Bigstuff? You go girl. Keep laying it on him girl. YOu can look, but u can't touch thisbuddy.

Hugs Tam

Missus

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[Amy T]

LMFAO... OOOOOH YEAH BABY..

THAT is what its all about..

How funny... Im cracking up.. have NOTHING intelligent to say cause Im laughing so hard..

[Patti.B]

work it babee work it. th~ dont know you, only read bout your saga, hugs darlin. having been in those shoes, so so many years ago, the first time ex(hubby) cheated on me, and i went after what i wanted (him) and won, i am living proof you can get what you want. course, 12 years later, he did it again, and that time, i d~i~v~o~r~c~e~d his arse... but ... at the time, so many eions ago, it was right and what i wanted. only you know best for you and your family and if, he's worth it. mine was, he was a good daddy.

[CasinoGirl]

oh girl that is too funny! you should've flirted up a storm and mentioned you were divorcing in front of them both. that would have really pi$$ed him off!! work it girl!!

[Paula]

love it!


he (mark)sounds like man who wants his cake and eat it too

[Determined1-- derland here I come]

You should've said - "you mean he's not married" (very excitedly) I am over here roflmao!!! You keep your confidence honey you know you got it going on!

[BLAZE31]

Tammy, Im thinking maybe you need to go see the math teacher again.... just to let him know could volunteer to help in his class anytime...

[mms72]

tAMMY-- toooo funny!!!! Once word gets out your soon to be single your gonna have the men knocking down your door!!

maybe this teacher needs a little help with some extraciricular activities! LOL!!


Autins mom has got it going on......

Autins mom has got it going on......

She's all I want..

and i have waited for so long....


(I'm singing "Stacey's mom" in my head right now!)

[MotherLunsford]

Oh my Lord! The girl is feeling her oats! I am just absolutely loving it! I feel sorry for the man she has yet to meet, the man of her dreams and destiny 'cause she might just love HIM to death! This is so cool! Soooooooo wonderful!

» Mr. Big Stuff

(Oh yeah)
(Ooh)
Mr. Big Stuff
Who do you think you are?
Mr. Big Stuff
You're never gonna get my love
Now, because you wear all those fancy clothes (oh yeah)
And have a big, fine car, oh yes you do now,
Do you think I can afford to give you my love? (oh yeah)
You think you're higher than every star above
Mr. Big Stuff
Who do you think you are?
Mr. Big Stuff
You're never gonna get my love
Now, I know all the girls I've seen you with
I know you broke their hearts one after another now, bit by bit
You made 'em cry, many poor girls cry
When they tried to keep you happy, they just tried to keep you satisfied
Mr. Big Stuff, tell me, tell me
Who do you think you are?
Mr. Big Stuff
You're never gonna get my love
BREAK
I'd rather give my love to a poor guy that has a love that's true (oh yeah)
Than to be fooled around and get hurt by you
'Cause when I give my love, I want love in return (oh yeah)
Now, I know this is a lesson, Mr. Big Stuff, you haven't learned
Mr. Big Stuff, tell me
Who do you think you are?
Mr. Big Stuff
You're never gonna get my love
Mr. Big Stuff
You're never gonna break my heart
Mr. Big Stuff
You're never gonna make me cry

(I tried to find a decent link to the mp3 file, but they are all crap!)

Mother

[Stayingstrong]

You guys crack me up!! I can just picture mother singing Mr Big Stuff and Michelle singing Stacey's Mom (lol) too funny!! Boy oh Boy let me tell you. Come to find out this will be my daughters Math teacher as well. Small school so I guess they utilize teachers in the middle school for some high school classes. They also have the same history teacher. So come Monday morning (I have Sunday off so I will be well rested!!) I am going to go to the school and find out if Mr. Adams needs help grading papers or anything else I can help with that is pertaining to school now Going to go lay down....I need a cat nap.... Tammy

[EBONY POETESS]

tammy you should have said yeah he's my man and if you dont like it too damn bad!
tammy your beautiful more than the eyes can see
markwas not your soulmate he was just preparing you for the love that god brings you will be in love one day and you'll know it by the beats of your heart the many smiles your soul sings

[mms72]

Maybe he needs a teacher's Assistant

How's it going Tammy??? Did the kids start their new school yet?? are you moved into the cabin?

[FocusedOnFitness]

I am with the another poster who said you should have been flirty and told him your husband and yourself were divorcing so to be sure he has the separate numbers.

[lekshorty]

Don't forget to wear your garter belt and stillettos. Good for you girl. You needed this ego boost. Heck, we all do once in a while.

Laura

[*Becky*]

Tammy - I hope you weren't wearing a wedding ring?! That is such a great post to read from you! You're gonna be true to your name I know it

[Stayingstrong]

Hey Becky nope I wasn't wearing a wedding ring! I stopped wearing mine the same week I noticed he wasnt wearing his.... I am just feeling really lonely, just a weird feeling I dont know why I am feeling like this..... Kind of down today so dont mind me too much....

Michelle no we havent gotten moved in yet, which really pi$$es me off!! The electric finnaly got to the house last Wednesday, and they got the pump for the well all hooked up so now I am waiting for dumb ***** to run the electric in the walls and hook us up a bathtub and a sink. Then I dont need his pathetic ***** for anything. I know how to put up dry wall so once all that other stuff is done I will be good to go. I took the kids to church this morning they are going to the state fair with the youth group. Well after I dropped them off I ran by the cabin to check on it and I can tell Mark had been out there because he started the electrical stuff. I Could tell that the b!tch had been out there too because she left behind a can of her Red Bull on my deck and she is the only person I know that drinks the stuff. Uggghhhh this just makes me soooo mad. He had the balls to bring her to MY new home for me and the kids.. It just really angers me to want to do something in revenge.... I guess this is why I am just feeling so depressed the last few days... I just dont know what to do to get myself out of this rut. I finished hopefully my last semester last week. I will find out if I have enough credits to graduate next week (they have to review the courses I have taken and make sure that the degree has all the required stuff, etc) so I would think I would be happy about that but I am not.... I went out and bought a mini skirt and some cute tops because I was going to go out but I cant bring myself to do it! Oh well my life ****$ and I just need to deal with it I guess. I am going to go to the school tommorow and still see if that teacher needs some help, I really need to make some friends. I think that would help the most right now. The kids started school at the new school. They really like it. I was worried about Austin but he came home and said that 17 girls asked him out on the first day. So he is adjusting alot better then I thought he would. Well I am going to lay down, and try to sleep. I am going to be picking the kids up in a couple of hours. ~Tammy

[mms72]

Hi Tammy--

what a jerk to bring her there! i wish i lived closer to ya cause we could go hang out girlie!!

You do need to get out tho! i know its hard and you just don't feel like it-- but even to just go see a movie or something! Do something just for yourself. Just to take your mind off all this for alittle while!! have ya meet any of the other adults at the church your going too-- or any fun coworkers to hand out with?? It IS hard to make and have time for friends when your so busy with kids and work and school!!!! i feel like i am disconnected from my old high school friends-- we still talk here and there....but not like we used to...


Congrats on (hopefully!) graduating girl!!!! Thats a MAJOR accomplishment and you need to be proud of yourself!!!!!!!!!! all the sacrifice you have made is gonna pay off!!! The best is yet to come!!!!

[*Becky*]

Aw Tammy.... you're bound to have good and bad days. They are unpredictable and sometimes it will hit you like a rock. My brother is going through the exact same thing as you right now and I talk to him every day. Sometimes he calls me from his work, close to tears and just needing someone for support and love. Other times he calls and is so cheery, cleaning the house, cooking supper for his three kids that she abandoned, very proud of himself. Allow yourself to go through the stages of grieving, anger, denial, sadness, acceptance, etc. We're here for you.

[*Becky*]

Also Tammy, something you might want to consider is divorce support groups. My church has a divorce study group every Tuesday night. Maybe you can find something like that to meet new people who are going through similar situations. My brother belongs to an internet divorce group and that has really helped him too...

[Tia]

Hi Tammy, I'm with Becky. I have never been thru what you have nor do I want to go thru it but I would think you will have a lot of days of up's and down's.
I have been thinking about you and wondering how you were doing. Isn't it funny how they can mess around and everything is fine but if you even look at someone the fur on their back just seems to stand up!! Go Figure!
Angie

[missus]

Hey Tammy, just checking in u girl. How's it going? Did the teacher need a volunteer?

Missus

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