Re locking up a post or thread - Phentermine.com

missus · July 21st, 2004, 09:06 AM

To keep it short and simple, I do believe in locking up a post if it gets out of hand.

In this case, it is totally out of hand. And I'm not pming anyone, talking behind their back, etc. I believe in calling a spade a spade (if you will) or a diamond a diamond.

So if the girl didn't call anyones name, she may as well as we all knew who she was talking about. To those of you defending the actions of the negative person, I applaud u. But why don't u make it known instead of pming and iming and all of that sick silly little stuff? And then oming up in and offhandledly defending. Either go all the way or half way.

A true friend (or phriend) and a real woman (or man) does not have to pm, im or anything unless it's with the person they have the grievance. Not to talk about something or someone. if u don't like a eprson,pm that person and get it out. But if I got a beef withsomeone, I'll tell u, I won't beat around the bush or talk about u to another phriend. I'm for real, as everyone else should be.

If u think this post is about u, then it is. U have a problem with it, address it. I'm sick and tired of people making innuendos, getting one person riled up and starting stuff. And I'm right out there, I like Becky. I like Mad, everone here, but some of the things we do, man I wonder. If u read the post by cyn, you will see that the tongue is the culprit. Or in this case, the keyboard which resprsents the tongue.

Now I hope everyone will have a good day and think about the blessing you have, U don't have a relative who dies of cancer (my cousin last week). apparently u don't have money worries, u have nice lives, be supportive of the person who is not having it as good as you are. Don't hit a person when they are down, lift them up instead and help them, as we are helping Iraq, the people in Sudan. It's the same difference, except a larger scale.

Missus

BE BLESSED

[ July 21, 2004, 02:28 PM: Message edited by: missus ]

health4life · July 21st, 2004, 09:08 AM

You tellem Missus luv ya,

cyn37 · July 21st, 2004, 09:26 AM

I agree totally with what you are saying. The originally tpic is long gone and everybody just wants the last good jab. Truly sad.
Thanks for mentioning my other post--too bad some will continue to fight each other on the other thread and never see it.

missus · July 21st, 2004, 09:29 AM

Cyn, exactly. I posted it too. YOu see only a handful read it. Too busy lilke you said jabbing, and getting the last word in. The topic should be locked down.

Missus

BE BLESSED

FocusedOnFitness · July 21st, 2004, 09:31 AM

Missus, the only reason I don't agree with locking up topics is because everything is left unresolved and it just carries over to a new topic.

I don't defend Mad's actions, I just feel when others begin attacking her or anyone else it turns into a free-for-all. If Phensters left spats between the two who were spatting, there wouldn't be a need to lock up anything.

That's just my humble opinion.

madkins1222 · July 21st, 2004, 09:31 AM

What happens in the real-world, when someone is disagreeing with someone else? You gonna lock them up? You probably would huh Missus?

missus · July 21st, 2004, 09:37 AM

Madkins, don't come up in here on my thread. I'm sick and tired of you. YOu try to bait people, and don't think liek Phat said, that half of the people are in agreement with your attitude. Just know that I've never pmd you and anyone else when I might have thought everyone was talking about me, like u did. Your mouth got u in trouble then. Or do u want me to post what u said? And to all of the others who have pmd me, ya want me to post what ya said? I can. So shut up. Mad, leave me alone, like I said in my post 2 weeks ago, I';m done with u. Have u seen me answer any of your posts? Nada. Poof, be gone, I don't like your actions. Yeah, you're a nice person, but u go too far.

Emma, that's your opinio, but I sense something else. My own opino is mine. Just like yours is your own.

I really don't feel like anyone atached the girl. She came right out with her stuff, and other people came right back. My only thing I feel bad about is how Bekc didn't start it out to end like this.

Ya know, if any of u reach 54 and learn anything ( as I have), and I'm still learning. Life is learning what to say, when to say it and how. it will be a blessing, cuz what u have today will not always be there. You never know when or if u will need someone that you've bad mouthed or made feel bad on purpose.

And I'm talking about on your jobs, your spouses/friends, etc.

U need to watch yourselves. Cuz what goes around comes right back to you.

Missus

BE BLESSED

[ July 21, 2004, 02:39 PM: Message edited by: missus ]

April in Fla · July 21st, 2004, 09:41 AM

So very true missus about who ya might need one day.....thanks for your wisdom

FocusedOnFitness · July 21st, 2004, 09:45 AM

Missus, I understand where you are coming from, but I wanted to make sure you knew what I was saying as well. I don't expect anyone to agree with my opinion though, but I didn't want anyone to miscontrue it on the other thread.

Melmin · July 21st, 2004, 09:48 AM

Missus,

Luv ya girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mel

callmerae · July 21st, 2004, 09:50 AM

missus I think you have a heart of gold and many people here will learn alot from you..about weightloss and life in general..women are awful..always trying to do one better..get the last word in..ironically I could guarantee you if this site was full of men..it wouldn't have gone 4 pages deep..as a newbie I am sorry to see bek go..but I must say I am disappointed that people don't post more pictures on the success pages as we would love to see more of that..keep blessing us with your presence missus..you are a great lady.

missus · July 21st, 2004, 09:51 AM

Yeah, you were saying you don't believe in locking up posts. Very simple. Just like I said I do believe in locking up posts and I said it some time before u made your statement. So with that being said, a very dear friend gave me some good advice, let it go. It's gone.

Bye.

Missus

be blessed

madkins1222 · July 21st, 2004, 10:01 AM

You do what you gotta do lady, but remember one thing! You need to practice what you preach. You're the biggest hypocrite on this board. What about the pm you sent me about keeping it real, and saying what's on my mind. Only when it's something you like huh? I sent you a pm about our business, but like you've done in the past, break the trust and start throwing the chit like everyone else.
You posted this thread with my name in it, so you can bet your arse I'm gonna respond. If you don't like it, than pass me on by like you have so many times.
What happened to the speach about allowing me to speak my mind like everyone else? Doesn't apply to me, just everyone else.
Whatever you say Missus.

FocusedOnFitness · July 21st, 2004, 10:02 AM

Well, now it sounds as if you are angry with me just because I wanted to explain myself. I hope that's not the case, but I will definitely let it go.

madkins1222 · July 21st, 2004, 10:12 AM

Empty your mailbox missus, so I can respond to your pm.

[ July 21, 2004, 03:14 PM: Message edited by: madkins1222 ]

July 21st, 2004, 09:06 AM	#1 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	To keep it short and simple, I do believe in locking up a post if it gets out of hand. In this case, it is totally out of hand. And I'm not pming anyone, talking behind their back, etc. I believe in calling a spade a spade (if you will) or a diamond a diamond. So if the girl didn't call anyones name, she may as well as we all knew who she was talking about. To those of you defending the actions of the negative person, I applaud u. But why don't u make it known instead of pming and iming and all of that sick silly little stuff? And then oming up in and offhandledly defending. Either go all the way or half way. A true friend (or phriend) and a real woman (or man) does not have to pm, im or anything unless it's with the person they have the grievance. Not to talk about something or someone. if u don't like a eprson,pm that person and get it out. But if I got a beef withsomeone, I'll tell u, I won't beat around the bush or talk about u to another phriend. I'm for real, as everyone else should be. If u think this post is about u, then it is. U have a problem with it, address it. I'm sick and tired of people making innuendos, getting one person riled up and starting stuff. And I'm right out there, I like Becky. I like Mad, everone here, but some of the things we do, man I wonder. If u read the post by cyn, you will see that the tongue is the culprit. Or in this case, the keyboard which resprsents the tongue. Now I hope everyone will have a good day and think about the blessing you have, U don't have a relative who dies of cancer (my cousin last week). apparently u don't have money worries, u have nice lives, be supportive of the person who is not having it as good as you are. Don't hit a person when they are down, lift them up instead and help them, as we are helping Iraq, the people in Sudan. It's the same difference, except a larger scale. Missus BE BLESSED [ July 21, 2004, 02:28 PM: Message edited by: missus ] Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

July 21st, 2004, 09:29 AM	#4 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	Cyn, exactly. I posted it too. YOu see only a handful read it. Too busy lilke you said jabbing, and getting the last word in. The topic should be locked down. Missus BE BLESSED Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

July 21st, 2004, 09:37 AM	#7 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	Madkins, don't come up in here on my thread. I'm sick and tired of you. YOu try to bait people, and don't think liek Phat said, that half of the people are in agreement with your attitude. Just know that I've never pmd you and anyone else when I might have thought everyone was talking about me, like u did. Your mouth got u in trouble then. Or do u want me to post what u said? And to all of the others who have pmd me, ya want me to post what ya said? I can. So shut up. Mad, leave me alone, like I said in my post 2 weeks ago, I';m done with u. Have u seen me answer any of your posts? Nada. Poof, be gone, I don't like your actions. Yeah, you're a nice person, but u go too far. Emma, that's your opinio, but I sense something else. My own opino is mine. Just like yours is your own. I really don't feel like anyone atached the girl. She came right out with her stuff, and other people came right back. My only thing I feel bad about is how Bekc didn't start it out to end like this. Ya know, if any of u reach 54 and learn anything ( as I have), and I'm still learning. Life is learning what to say, when to say it and how. it will be a blessing, cuz what u have today will not always be there. You never know when or if u will need someone that you've bad mouthed or made feel bad on purpose. And I'm talking about on your jobs, your spouses/friends, etc. U need to watch yourselves. Cuz what goes around comes right back to you. Missus BE BLESSED [ July 21, 2004, 02:39 PM: Message edited by: missus ] Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

July 21st, 2004, 09:41 AM	#8 (permalink)
April in Fla Bronze Phenster Join Date: May 2004 Location: Orlando area Posts: 243 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 179	So very true missus about who ya might need one day.....thanks for your wisdom "....treat others the way you want to be treated..."

July 21st, 2004, 09:50 AM	#11 (permalink)
callmerae Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: alberta Posts: 401 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 155 Goal Weight: 115	missus I think you have a heart of gold and many people here will learn alot from you..about weightloss and life in general..women are awful..always trying to do one better..get the last word in..ironically I could guarantee you if this site was full of men..it wouldn't have gone 4 pages deep..as a newbie I am sorry to see bek go..but I must say I am disappointed that people don't post more pictures on the success pages as we would love to see more of that..keep blessing us with your presence missus..you are a great lady. sw155lb august 30/04 148lb (started disebsin aug14/04) gw110-115lb

July 21st, 2004, 09:08 AM	#2 (permalink)
health4life I AM WILLING TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO LIVE A HEALTHY SLIMMER LIFE Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: florida Posts: 6,748 Lost Weight: 98 lbs Current Weight: 170 lbs Goal Weight: 150	You tellem Missus luv ya,

July 21st, 2004, 09:26 AM	#3 (permalink)
cyn37 Silver Phenster Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,435 Lost Weight: 0lbs Goal Weight: I just wanna see onderland! And then we\'ll worry about a goal!!	I agree totally with what you are saying. The originally tpic is long gone and everybody just wants the last good jab. Truly sad. Thanks for mentioning my other post--too bad some will continue to fight each other on the other thread and never see it.

July 21st, 2004, 09:31 AM	#5 (permalink)
FocusedOnFitness Dancing Machine Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: East Coast Posts: 4,141 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 200 Goal Weight: 160	Missus, the only reason I don't agree with locking up topics is because everything is left unresolved and it just carries over to a new topic. I don't defend Mad's actions, I just feel when others begin attacking her or anyone else it turns into a free-for-all. If Phensters left spats between the two who were spatting, there wouldn't be a need to lock up anything. That's just my humble opinion.

July 21st, 2004, 09:31 AM	#6 (permalink)
madkins1222 Go ahead, make my day! Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 2,085 Lost Weight: 27 Current Weight: sw 177/ cw143 Goal Weight: 140	What happens in the real-world, when someone is disagreeing with someone else? You gonna lock them up? You probably would huh Missus?

July 21st, 2004, 09:45 AM	#9 (permalink)
FocusedOnFitness Dancing Machine Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: East Coast Posts: 4,141 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 200 Goal Weight: 160	Missus, I understand where you are coming from, but I wanted to make sure you knew what I was saying as well. I don't expect anyone to agree with my opinion though, but I didn't want anyone to miscontrue it on the other thread.

July 21st, 2004, 09:48 AM	#10 (permalink)
Melmin Diamond Phenster Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 2,260 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Missus, Luv ya girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mel

July 21st, 2004, 09:51 AM	#12 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	Yeah, you were saying you don't believe in locking up posts. Very simple. Just like I said I do believe in locking up posts and I said it some time before u made your statement. So with that being said, a very dear friend gave me some good advice, let it go. It's gone. Bye. Missus be blessed Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

July 21st, 2004, 10:01 AM	#13 (permalink)
madkins1222 Go ahead, make my day! Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 2,085 Lost Weight: 27 Current Weight: sw 177/ cw143 Goal Weight: 140	You do what you gotta do lady, but remember one thing! You need to practice what you preach. You're the biggest hypocrite on this board. What about the pm you sent me about keeping it real, and saying what's on my mind. Only when it's something you like huh? I sent you a pm about our business, but like you've done in the past, break the trust and start throwing the chit like everyone else. You posted this thread with my name in it, so you can bet your arse I'm gonna respond. If you don't like it, than pass me on by like you have so many times. What happened to the speach about allowing me to speak my mind like everyone else? Doesn't apply to me, just everyone else. Whatever you say Missus.

July 21st, 2004, 10:02 AM	#14 (permalink)
FocusedOnFitness Dancing Machine Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: East Coast Posts: 4,141 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 200 Goal Weight: 160	Well, now it sounds as if you are angry with me just because I wanted to explain myself. I hope that's not the case, but I will definitely let it go.

July 21st, 2004, 10:12 AM	#15 (permalink)
madkins1222 Go ahead, make my day! Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 2,085 Lost Weight: 27 Current Weight: sw 177/ cw143 Goal Weight: 140	Empty your mailbox missus, so I can respond to your pm. [ July 21, 2004, 03:14 PM: Message edited by: madkins1222 ]