what do you see in the mirror? - Phentermine.com

Lilo · June 21st, 2003, 01:29 PM

Lets all be honest! I want everyone to look in the mirror and tell me what they see and say to themselves. I want you to be aware of how you speak to yourselves when no one is looking. I'll tell you why later.

lilo

STaR101 · June 21st, 2003, 01:42 PM

Are u kidding, u asked this question at the WRONG time, but I'll answer anyway.

When I look in the mirror I see fat, sloppy, cellulite, unhappy, not-outgoing, sad, disgusting, gross and un-attractive. I see someone about to have to buy the next size up if I don't make moves now.

health4life · June 21st, 2003, 02:05 PM

To be honest I dont think my mirror likes me that much. Most days i'm like ewww then other times I might catch my reflection in a store window and say DAYUUUM and have to turn around to see if its another woman standing behind me lol

[ June 21, 2003, 07:07 PM: Message edited by: health4life ]

summer_rain · June 21st, 2003, 02:06 PM

Okay I will tell you what I see.
I see someone who has a long way to go to feel good about herself and accept herself for what she is each day.When I see myself without clothes I want to get sick cause I look awful in my view.
I comlain about cellulite and fat that I see everywhere and wonder how my hubby can love my the way he does!
But under it all I keep telling myself that the thin me is there I just need to see her for what she is then she will be able to come out for good!

icandoit1234 · June 21st, 2003, 02:09 PM

Depends on the day. Most of the time I think EWWWWWWW!, Others I think I'm the best thing since sliced bread!

FindingSTA · June 21st, 2003, 04:28 PM

When I look at the mirror I see someone who is wondering who she is...someone who is loving but doesn't feel loved; someone who cares but doesn't feel cared for; someone who is overwhelmed and tired, someone with a pretty face and nice hair, someone who wants to be a better wife and mom but isn't yet caring for herself enough to fulfill this dream...someone learning to love herself.

AMYDIONNE · June 22nd, 2003, 01:08 AM

When I look in the mirror I see someone who is 27 with a body that is gross. I see someone who has noticed a diffrence in there body since april 03 but someone who is still unattractive. I see someone who everyone says they have seen a big diffrence in my weight loss but I havent. I see someone who is always bashing herself and never thinks shes looks pretty. When I look in the mirror I see someone who is really sad within herself and always thinks bad things about her. Ok thats all. Amy

June 22nd, 2003, 04:28 AM

Unfortuately when I look in the mirror I do NOT like what I see. I feel like I am HUGE, my face is completely wrinkled and generally unattractive. Even a few years ago when I weighed 101 pounds I still to this day remember thinking I was fat. Now I look at pictures at that weight and think OMG I am positively bony! Can you say therapy???

powergirl · June 22nd, 2003, 05:19 AM

Okay, honestly - I looked in the mirror this morning, and I liked what I saw!!!! I am not normally a very modest person, I have beat myself up for years and years about the way I look - but I'm liking myself more and more each day. I still, by all means, am nowhere near my goal weight, but I can sure see a difference, and it makes me feel good!! I could still never wear a bikini without offending a lot of people, but for the first time in like 15 years, I actually saw myself closer than I have ever been, to being able to wear one!! Girls - lets not be so hard on ourselves - look in the mirror, and see how far you have come!!!!

onlyme · June 22nd, 2003, 05:40 AM

Whew - thats a hard one...somedays I feel good, I even feel skinny...other days I think 'if I could just lose this baby belly and tone my thighs, I'd be close to perfect'. I'm really bad about comparing myself to other people ~ and they are usually the way skinny ones.

ps thanks for the info on your workouts - you really work your ***** off!

Sandye · June 22nd, 2003, 06:06 AM

I see a 48 year old grandmother of two ...

[IMG]http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0RgDUAmkVBfqYOax8O4zVVX0Ox9Zmx4K1WfanBhmgdwfKGhMOg 4Jc!V%2acgz6C1izJipTqQ4Kl3gRzDjgR***mGNLBhh%2aQ5Vp dYaUHMm7VjTw/Girlz_08.jpg[/IMG]

... who does NOT bake cookies! Grandpa and I chill with Jose Cuervo instead!

Slave2Food · June 22nd, 2003, 06:38 AM

tub of lard

smf1961 · June 22nd, 2003, 08:55 AM

a short, fat, unattractive person! I often wonder why my husband ever married me or even stays with me!! I often dont like myself and so I don't like what I see in the mirror.

KayBee · June 22nd, 2003, 10:20 AM

I see an almost 40 year old woman who looks healthier than ever. I see all the good exercise has done.

If I turn around I still see some "loose" skins on my butt and upper thighs - so I just keep on exercising and don't turn around for the back view unless I'm wearing tight jeans or shorts that put things where they should be!

[ June 22, 2003, 03:20 PM: Message edited by: KayBee ]

Lilo · June 22nd, 2003, 11:09 AM

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh you guys have me in freakin tears!!

June 21st, 2003, 01:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
STaR101 DiaMoND CLuSTa HuSTLa Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: NY TiLL i Die Posts: 5,835 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 195\'ish Goal Weight: 170\'ish	Are u kidding, u asked this question at the WRONG time, but I'll answer anyway. When I look in the mirror I see fat, sloppy, cellulite, unhappy, not-outgoing, sad, disgusting, gross and un-attractive. I see someone about to have to buy the next size up if I don't make moves now. -"I can do bad by myself, and since I been by myself, I haven't done bad"- -"Don't assume failure, or you'll be sure to make it a reality"- -"Don't make it a priority if you're just an option"- 5'8" ~ 25lbs GoNe ~ ~ 15 MoRe PouNDS To Go ~ ~ DoiN THa DaMN THaNG ~

June 21st, 2003, 04:28 PM	#6 (permalink)
FindingSTA Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Texas Posts: 63 Lost Weight: 46 Current Weight: 303 Goal Weight: Next Goal: 299	When I look at the mirror I see someone who is wondering who she is...someone who is loving but doesn't feel loved; someone who cares but doesn't feel cared for; someone who is overwhelmed and tired, someone with a pretty face and nice hair, someone who wants to be a better wife and mom but isn't yet caring for herself enough to fulfill this dream...someone learning to love herself. Sarah

June 22nd, 2003, 01:08 AM	#7 (permalink)
AMYDIONNE Bronze Phenster Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Panama city Posts: 49 Lost Weight: 13 Current Weight: 159 Goal Weight: 130	When I look in the mirror I see someone who is 27 with a body that is gross. I see someone who has noticed a diffrence in there body since april 03 but someone who is still unattractive. I see someone who everyone says they have seen a big diffrence in my weight loss but I havent. I see someone who is always bashing herself and never thinks shes looks pretty. When I look in the mirror I see someone who is really sad within herself and always thinks bad things about her. Ok thats all. Amy AMYDIONNE "HOW CAN YOU LOVE ANYONE IF YOU CANT LOVE YOURSELF" CURRENT WEIGHT:158 STARTED MEDS 4/28/03 5/3/03-154 5/10/03 153 5/23/03 149 6/01/03 146 6/21/03 144-145(stopped phen) 7/20/143 GOAL FOR AUGUST :140 9-22- 141 GW:130-135 [IMG][/IMG]

June 22nd, 2003, 05:40 AM	#10 (permalink)
onlyme Gold Phenster Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 912 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 137 Goal Weight: 115	Whew - thats a hard one...somedays I feel good, I even feel skinny...other days I think 'if I could just lose this baby belly and tone my thighs, I'd be close to perfect'. I'm really bad about comparing myself to other people ~ and they are usually the way skinny ones. ps thanks for the info on your workouts - you really work your ***** off! "It's not what you know about tomorrow, but what you do today, that matters" SW 149.0 on 01/01/03 CW 134.0 on 08/30/03 GW 125.0 by 09/22/03

June 22nd, 2003, 06:06 AM	#11 (permalink)
Sandye Voice of Wisdom Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,305 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 131 Goal Weight: 125	I see a 48 year old grandmother of two ... [IMG]http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0RgDUAmkVBfqYOax8O4zVVX0Ox9Zmx4K1WfanBhmgdwfKGhMOg 4Jc!V%2acgz6C1izJipTqQ4Kl3gRzDjgR***mGNLBhh%2aQ5Vp dYaUHMm7VjTw/Girlz_08.jpg[/IMG] ... who does NOT bake cookies! Grandpa and I chill with Jose Cuervo instead! All you can do is the best you can do ... but the best you can do is enough.

June 21st, 2003, 01:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
Lilo Gold Phenster Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 846 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Lets all be honest! I want everyone to look in the mirror and tell me what they see and say to themselves. I want you to be aware of how you speak to yourselves when no one is looking. I'll tell you why later. lilo

June 21st, 2003, 02:05 PM	#3 (permalink)
health4life I AM WILLING TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO LIVE A HEALTHY SLIMMER LIFE Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: florida Posts: 6,748 Lost Weight: 98 lbs Current Weight: 170 lbs Goal Weight: 150	To be honest I dont think my mirror likes me that much. Most days i'm like ewww then other times I might catch my reflection in a store window and say DAYUUUM and have to turn around to see if its another woman standing behind me lol [ June 21, 2003, 07:07 PM: Message edited by: health4life ]

June 21st, 2003, 02:06 PM	#4 (permalink)
summer_rain Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: British Columbia Posts: 67 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 256 Goal Weight: 180	Okay I will tell you what I see. I see someone who has a long way to go to feel good about herself and accept herself for what she is each day.When I see myself without clothes I want to get sick cause I look awful in my view. I comlain about cellulite and fat that I see everywhere and wonder how my hubby can love my the way he does! But under it all I keep telling myself that the thin me is there I just need to see her for what she is then she will be able to come out for good!

June 21st, 2003, 02:09 PM	#5 (permalink)
icandoit1234 Silver Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: gaithersburg,maryland Posts: 232 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 220 Goal Weight: 170	Depends on the day. Most of the time I think EWWWWWWW!, Others I think I'm the best thing since sliced bread!

June 22nd, 2003, 04:28 AM	#8 (permalink)
Nick&Evansmom Guest Posts: n/a	Unfortuately when I look in the mirror I do NOT like what I see. I feel like I am HUGE, my face is completely wrinkled and generally unattractive. Even a few years ago when I weighed 101 pounds I still to this day remember thinking I was fat. Now I look at pictures at that weight and think OMG I am positively bony! Can you say therapy???

June 22nd, 2003, 05:19 AM	#9 (permalink)
powergirl Silver Phenster Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Janesville, WI Posts: 135 Lost Weight: 33 Current Weight: 197 Goal Weight: 185	Okay, honestly - I looked in the mirror this morning, and I liked what I saw!!!! I am not normally a very modest person, I have beat myself up for years and years about the way I look - but I'm liking myself more and more each day. I still, by all means, am nowhere near my goal weight, but I can sure see a difference, and it makes me feel good!! I could still never wear a bikini without offending a lot of people, but for the first time in like 15 years, I actually saw myself closer than I have ever been, to being able to wear one!! Girls - lets not be so hard on ourselves - look in the mirror, and see how far you have come!!!!

June 22nd, 2003, 06:38 AM	#12 (permalink)
Slave2Food Silver Phenster Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Houston, Texas Posts: 169 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 176 Goal Weight: 140	tub of lard June 2003 SW 162 Sept 2003 153 (Meridia) Dec 2003 145 (weight watchers) Feb 2004 137 (WW/Phen weekends) Mar 2004 135 (WW/Phen weekends) May 15, 2004 Was my wedding day. I weighed 133 pounds of pure muscle. All of the hard work (30 sessions with a personal trainer) paid off when I wore a thong on my honeymoon. I came back from my honeymoon and things were good. I was happy. Then, on July 4th I was in an ATV accident. After 3 months of physical therapy I went back to work. I was depressed. I saw the doctor for medication and therapy. By the grace of God I survived the depression and endured through the pain. Yes, I could have killed my husband and myself, but I didn't. I'm still here and... I want a DO-OVER!!! September 2006 176

June 22nd, 2003, 08:55 AM	#13 (permalink)
smf1961 Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Mc Kinney TX Posts: 35 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 135 Goal Weight: 125	a short, fat, unattractive person! I often wonder why my husband ever married me or even stays with me!! I often dont like myself and so I don't like what I see in the mirror. SW 155 143 6/15/03 CW 135 8/28/03 GW 120-125 If God brings it to you, he will bring you through it.

June 22nd, 2003, 10:20 AM	#14 (permalink)
KayBee Diamond Phenster and Diamonds are a girl's BEST FRIEND! Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Maryland Posts: 3,639 Lost Weight: 65 Current Weight: 153 Goal Weight: 140	I see an almost 40 year old woman who looks healthier than ever. I see all the good exercise has done. If I turn around I still see some "loose" skins on my butt and upper thighs - so I just keep on exercising and don't turn around for the back view unless I'm wearing tight jeans or shorts that put things where they should be! [ June 22, 2003, 03:20 PM: Message edited by: KayBee ] Krista aka KayBee

June 22nd, 2003, 11:09 AM	#15 (permalink)
Lilo Gold Phenster Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 846 Lost Weight: 0lbs	ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh you guys have me in freakin tears!!