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Tamuril · February 5th, 2003, 08:29 AM

Hey everyone... I'm really new to the forum, this is my first day. I've tried losing weight before but it never worked, i think because i have noone on my side. After i graduated high school i moved away from my home town to a city, but I havent' made any friends and haven't heard from any of my old friends. My mother, who always supported me, lives on the other side of the county. All i have is my husband and he's kind of a butt. I've read lots of posts and everyone is so supportive. i'm almost positive that's what a need. i'm already motivated just reading what you all have written. Thanks.

missus · February 5th, 2003, 08:35 AM

Okay Girl. You can strike that last sentence. You now have many friends. I'm feeling you. My husband (ex) moved me from Oklahoma to Superior, Wisconsin right after we were married. I coped, but I missed my mother (dad and other family members) fiercely. One good thing, he encouraged me to finish college, which I did. So there is a reason for everything. Be strong and of good cheer. We are here for you. Missus

WorkinIt · February 5th, 2003, 08:41 AM

Right on. You just have entered the phrend zone. Were all here for you. Good luck!!

LisaS · February 5th, 2003, 08:42 AM

Welcome!!! We're here for ya!

Lisa

JoannaCubana21 · February 5th, 2003, 08:45 AM

Missus and Tamuril can you be my buddies too??
I really enjoy this forums alot they are great and everyone here IS very supportive trust me Tamuril, missus is right and alot of people who are using phen are much more motivated whenever they access this website . I'm 21 and have a little 5 month old son his father passed away when I was 8 months pregnant, I don't have anyone either my whole family lives in Miami and my mom lives here in Ga but it's like a 4 1/2 hor drive to get over there ...So girls whenever you want to talk you can always count on me....

Joanne
178lbs 12/03
152lbs 2/05/03

stellar · February 5th, 2003, 08:45 AM

BOY did you come to the right place!

WELCOME!!!

I can relate, I moved to Illinois from CA many years ago. All my family is in CA. I have my husband and lucky for me hes only a butt about 20% of the time otherwise hes golden. Of course he didn't come prepackaged like that I had a lot of fine tuning to do,

ANYWAY... welcome aboard and jump right in.

Tamuril · February 5th, 2003, 08:48 AM

WOW! This is amazing. I walk away to straighten up my bathroom, and when i come back, i have five new friends. You guys are great. Joanna, I think you are so brave. I don't know what i'd do if i lost my husband. even though he's a butt, i love him more than anything.

LisaS · February 5th, 2003, 08:51 AM

All men can be butts.... BUT I'm not always easy to live with either.

I think most women can vouch for that???? Come on, honestly...lol

Good luck on your new lifestyle/journey. Let us know if you have any questions or need advice.

I MUST work now...

Lisa

dandi · February 5th, 2003, 08:59 AM

Girl I know how you feel.
I found this site about a week ago and everyone in here is so wonderful and supportive.
Welcome to Phenland.

JoannaCubana21 · February 5th, 2003, 09:00 AM

I know Tamuril, I wish you luck in your marriage and you have to realize that now your husband plays a very important role in your life, give him as much love as you can all men need tuning up like Lisas said so just be patient, and try to understand the reason sometimes he acts the way he does, maybe if he is stressed or something you can give him a massage on his back when he comes home from work and I know how tough being a new mommy is, sometimes just ignore remarks that he might have said cause if you blow up it may trigger an arguement. I pray that you and your family will always be together.

luvmyboxerpup · February 5th, 2003, 09:01 AM

Welcome!!!!

CONYSCAZ · February 5th, 2003, 09:03 AM

WELCOME! We are happy to have you! Just keep posting so that way we can get to know you better. If you need help posting a pic you can PM Fat2Phat she is the queen of posting!

missus · February 5th, 2003, 09:05 AM

LisaS, you are right about husbands being buts sometimes. But what would we do without them? What would they do without us. Love makes the world go aroung. What the world needs now is love, sweet love, it's the only thing that there's far too little of. (my favorite song). JoanaCubana, I posted you on one of your posts. Give me a post girl. I'm happy to see you are not letting life get you down. I'm sure the baby is a joy. Post a picture of him. I love babies. Everyone, have a great day. Missus

JoannaCubana21 · February 5th, 2003, 09:23 AM

oh missus you are right girl all this world needs right now is a whole lot of love.....I'm going to post you in a few

missus · February 5th, 2003, 09:37 AM

Tamaril: you have an earlier post. Missus

February 5th, 2003, 08:29 AM	#1 (permalink)
Tamuril Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 38 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 190 Goal Weight: 130	Hey everyone... I'm really new to the forum, this is my first day. I've tried losing weight before but it never worked, i think because i have noone on my side. After i graduated high school i moved away from my home town to a city, but I havent' made any friends and haven't heard from any of my old friends. My mother, who always supported me, lives on the other side of the county. All i have is my husband and he's kind of a butt. I've read lots of posts and everyone is so supportive. i'm almost positive that's what a need. i'm already motivated just reading what you all have written. Thanks. "Do, or do not. There is no 'try'." - Yoda ('The Empire Strikes Back') Total weight lost: 13 lbs. Goal weight loss by June: 48 lbs. Overall goal weight loss: 76 lbs.

February 5th, 2003, 08:35 AM	#2 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	Okay Girl. You can strike that last sentence. You now have many friends. I'm feeling you. My husband (ex) moved me from Oklahoma to Superior, Wisconsin right after we were married. I coped, but I missed my mother (dad and other family members) fiercely. One good thing, he encouraged me to finish college, which I did. So there is a reason for everything. Be strong and of good cheer. We are here for you. Missus Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

February 5th, 2003, 08:42 AM	#4 (permalink)
LisaS Platinum Phenster Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Atlanta Posts: 1,408 Lost Weight: 45.5 lbs Current Weight: 184.5 Goal Weight: 145	Welcome!!! We're here for ya! Lisa SW 230 SW on Phen 228 (10/19/02) CW 184.5 GW 145 "I can't be scared. I have teenagers."

February 5th, 2003, 08:45 AM	#5 (permalink)
JoannaCubana21 Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: From Miami Now in Atlanta Posts: 42 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 178 12/02 152 2/03 Goal Weight: I used to weigh 120 Feb 2002 had a baby now 178	Missus and Tamuril can you be my buddies too?? I really enjoy this forums alot they are great and everyone here IS very supportive trust me Tamuril, missus is right and alot of people who are using phen are much more motivated whenever they access this website . I'm 21 and have a little 5 month old son his father passed away when I was 8 months pregnant, I don't have anyone either my whole family lives in Miami and my mom lives here in Ga but it's like a 4 1/2 hor drive to get over there ...So girls whenever you want to talk you can always count on me.... Joanne 178lbs 12/03 152lbs 2/05/03 JoAnNaCuBaNa

February 5th, 2003, 08:45 AM	#6 (permalink)
stellar Diamond Phenster Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Illinoi Posts: 2,585 Lost Weight: 65 Current Weight: 181 Goal Weight:** 146	BOY did you come to the right place! WELCOME!!! I can relate, I moved to Illinois from CA many years ago. All my family is in CA. I have my husband and lucky for me hes only a butt about 20% of the time otherwise hes golden. Of course he didn't come prepackaged like that I had a lot of fine tuning to do, ANYWAY... welcome aboard and jump right in. Rae sw 246/cw 183/gw 146 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I Live in my own little world, but it's OK, everyone knows me here.

February 5th, 2003, 08:41 AM	#3 (permalink)
WorkinIt Silver Phenster Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 153 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Right on. You just have entered the phrend zone. Were all here for you. Good luck!!

February 5th, 2003, 08:48 AM	#7 (permalink)
Tamuril Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 38 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 190 Goal Weight: 130	WOW! This is amazing. I walk away to straighten up my bathroom, and when i come back, i have five new friends. You guys are great. Joanna, I think you are so brave. I don't know what i'd do if i lost my husband. even though he's a butt, i love him more than anything. "Do, or do not. There is no 'try'." - Yoda ('The Empire Strikes Back') Total weight lost: 13 lbs. Goal weight loss by June: 48 lbs. Overall goal weight loss: 76 lbs.

February 5th, 2003, 08:51 AM	#8 (permalink)
LisaS Platinum Phenster Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Atlanta Posts: 1,408 Lost Weight: 45.5 lbs Current Weight: 184.5 Goal Weight: 145	All men can be butts.... BUT I'm not always easy to live with either. I think most women can vouch for that???? Come on, honestly...lol Good luck on your new lifestyle/journey. Let us know if you have any questions or need advice. I MUST work now... Lisa SW 230 SW on Phen 228 (10/19/02) CW 184.5 GW 145 "I can't be scared. I have teenagers."

February 5th, 2003, 08:59 AM	#9 (permalink)
dandi Silver Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 145 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 160 Goal Weight: 115-120	Girl I know how you feel. I found this site about a week ago and everyone in here is so wonderful and supportive. Welcome to Phenland. Dandi

February 5th, 2003, 09:00 AM	#10 (permalink)
JoannaCubana21 Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: From Miami Now in Atlanta Posts: 42 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 178 12/02 152 2/03 Goal Weight: I used to weigh 120 Feb 2002 had a baby now 178	I know Tamuril, I wish you luck in your marriage and you have to realize that now your husband plays a very important role in your life, give him as much love as you can all men need tuning up like Lisas said so just be patient, and try to understand the reason sometimes he acts the way he does, maybe if he is stressed or something you can give him a massage on his back when he comes home from work and I know how tough being a new mommy is, sometimes just ignore remarks that he might have said cause if you blow up it may trigger an arguement. I pray that you and your family will always be together. JoAnNaCuBaNa

February 5th, 2003, 09:01 AM	#11 (permalink)
luvmyboxerpup Diamond Phenster Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Alabama Posts: 2,758 Lost Weight: 34 Current Weight: 122 Goal Weight: 125	Welcome!!!!

February 5th, 2003, 09:03 AM	#12 (permalink)
CONYSCAZ Gold Phenster Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Columbia, SC Posts: 876 Lost Weight: 35lbs Current Weight: 205 Goal Weight: 155	WELCOME! We are happy to have you! Just keep posting so that way we can get to know you better. If you need help posting a pic you can PM Fat2Phat she is the queen of posting!

February 5th, 2003, 09:05 AM	#13 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	LisaS, you are right about husbands being buts sometimes. But what would we do without them? What would they do without us. Love makes the world go aroung. What the world needs now is love, sweet love, it's the only thing that there's far too little of. (my favorite song). JoanaCubana, I posted you on one of your posts. Give me a post girl. I'm happy to see you are not letting life get you down. I'm sure the baby is a joy. Post a picture of him. I love babies. Everyone, have a great day. Missus Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

February 5th, 2003, 09:23 AM	#14 (permalink)
JoannaCubana21 Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: From Miami Now in Atlanta Posts: 42 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 178 12/02 152 2/03 Goal Weight: I used to weigh 120 Feb 2002 had a baby now 178	oh missus you are right girl all this world needs right now is a whole lot of love.....I'm going to post you in a few JoAnNaCuBaNa

February 5th, 2003, 09:37 AM	#15 (permalink)
missus Purple People Eater Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,383 Lost Weight: 5 Current Weight: 215 lbs Goal Weight: 200	Tamaril: you have an earlier post. Missus Hard work has made it easy. That is my secret. That is why I win. -Nadia Comaneci

February 5th, 2003, 10:22 AM	#16 (permalink)
LisaS Platinum Phenster Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Atlanta Posts: 1,408 Lost Weight: 45.5 lbs