Libby:
I was just reading of you loss. I am so sorry. I know it must be hard for you. You have so much on your plate. You seem to be a strong person and I hope this does not bring you down too much. Please know my thoughts are with you and everyone is here to listen to you. Lord knows you have been there for all of us with great advise and suggestions.
Take time for yourself, it's ok to let things go for awhile. Don't be too hard on yourself if you just can't get everything done.
The important things in your life right now should be You and Emma.
Take care and keep in touch.
Tina