ATTN All Secret Phen Pal Swappers ! READ THIS PLEASE - Phentermine.com

SeaCruisin · October 24th, 2001, 05:14 PM

Today is the 24th, All packages should be on there way to your Secret Pals ! If not, Please do so ASAP. Also if you could please post when you mail/recieve that would be great.

After MUCH thought, I have decided that this is NOT working out. Alot of bickering, People making nasty posts, etc, I will NOT continue to host this. I put alot of work into this and feel pretty hurt by it all. I can deal with my feelings hurt, What I cant deal with is people writing me telling me all of the sudden they cant " afford " to mail their package, Posts about feeling out of the Clique, Nasty emails to me, etc. I was just trying to do something motivating For all of us. I feel its turned into a disaster. So if you wish to continue with your secret pal, please do so, If not, please send the one and only package that was due out on the 23rd. I AM not bashing anyone, making excuses or any of that. I enjoyed getting it all together. I do feel that if you joined the swap that you should be sending at least your ONE package, afterall , it would not be fair for one person to get one and one to not.

FRANCIE · October 24th, 2001, 05:19 PM

HI SEA MONKEY!

I mailed my package Saturday.
And I received 2 gifts from my Pal!!

So all is well with me!

I am sorry for whatever crazinesshas been going on in your email box! SHEESH!

PS>> I AM DOING "EXACTLY" AS I SIGNED UP TO DO....I WILL MAIL THE REMAINING 2 PACKAGES AND EXPOSE MYSELF ON THE DEC GIFT.

CHEER UP.....THAT SIGNATURE OF YOUR LOOKS DAMN GOOD!!!!!!

[ October 24, 2001: Message edited by: FRANCIE ]

SparkleC · October 24th, 2001, 05:20 PM

gosh sea,,,im so sorry you had to deal with all that...

i thought it was a great idea and i appreciate all the effort you put into it...

and anyone who sent a nasty email to sea..

SHAME ON YOU

i completely understand why you dont want to continue....but it was fun while it lasted

nal · October 24th, 2001, 05:21 PM

I am so sad to hear that this went badly - I was looking forward to being in the next one. I completely understand you wanting out - to work hard on something to benefit others, and then have some of them have the unmitigated gall to criticize or back out....I'd be FURIOUS!! Those of you who did this - SHAME on you.
Now someone will probably be mad at me, but I don't care.

Thank you for your efforts, SC!!

nal · October 24th, 2001, 05:23 PM

SparkleC - we seem to think alike!

Nitra · October 24th, 2001, 05:30 PM

Sea Im sorry this is happening to you. I appreciate the effort you put into this and am having a grand time picking out things. Already getting stuff for my next package. I have no intention of stopping until Xmas as planned.

Seems some really like to be ugly in email huh? Thats a shame. We are all ADULTS right??

Anyone wanna send me nasty mail go for it. Just lay off Sea! She put a lot into this and it is supposed to be fun!

And yall wonder why I dont post much anymore.

sarita · October 24th, 2001, 05:37 PM

Hi Sea! I am so sorry you have been having such a time with the phen pal thing. I honestly think it is a great idea you started. It is so fun waiting for something other than a bill in the mail...I just did post on Robin's Who is not a secret pal and I realize that may have hurt your feelings. I am always impressed with people who take the time to start something like this. You are obviously a motivated and hard working person. I don't visit the forum every day and I missed the post about the unhappy phen pal. It looks like a lot of people are excited about the gifts they have received...but what is so nice is they are even more excited about the gifts they are giving. I guess you can tell I'm a "glass is half full" kinda gal. Hang in there Sea and if you are really feeling down...scroll back and count the positive posts about the secret phen pal exchange...I think you will find that they out number the negatives by far....

Take care Sea!

sarita

sarita · October 24th, 2001, 05:44 PM

Hi again Sea! I just saw Nitra's post when the page refreshed...Nitra, way to prove my point about people being more excited about giving than receiving!!!! I also realized Sea that I never actually apologized for possibly hurting your feelings by being silly in Robin's post...If I did make you feel badly sea...I am so sorry...you have been so gracious in this forum and I truly did not mean to hurt you...Take good care Sea!

sarita

FRANCIE · October 24th, 2001, 05:46 PM

Hey Sea,

If it makes you feel better..
I got hate email too!

Moonwatcher · October 24th, 2001, 05:54 PM

Hey Sea,

This should REALLY make you feel better...
One time I even sent hate email to myself!

Moosh · October 24th, 2001, 06:06 PM

I can't believe you got nasty e-mail. I had fun shopping for my pal, and I am going to continue to send as planned. It was and still is a GREAT IDEA!!!! I think you did a wonderful thing and I hope everyone continues as planned, but I will not be offended if I don't receive anything. Please don't let "some people" ruin it for everyone!!!!!!

Sandye · October 24th, 2001, 06:06 PM

Sorry that you have been blasted in emails, Sea - you certainly don't one deserve that. You tried to do something that was positive and (once again) the negative vibe that permeates this forum messed things up again!

You did a great job and you are to be commended. It was a tremendous effort and I hope that you know that.

ROBIN · October 24th, 2001, 07:09 PM

Sea,

I don't know what happened with your secret phen people. I hope my topic didn't have anything to do with this. I think what you started is great! I was the one who told you guys to go to Rena's site and get this started over there because J & J weren't going to let the email exchange go on here. I think it's wonderful to see how many people are doing this. It's great support!

I'm just in my own little world in that other topic. That is a bi*ch topic. It's rainy and cloudy over there. I'm pi$$ed at Jipi! If I said anything in that topic that makes you think I was making fun of your Phen group, I'm sorry. I wasn't trying to do that. This had nothing to do with anyone here besides John and Jipi. My saying my topic looked the best meaning ... the stars****. It was my way of getting over what Jipi did to my topic be editing my words. He still didn't win! I can forgive him this way. That's all I meant.

Have you noticed how all of the weird people are posting in that topic? It's kinda scary

Chunsa · October 24th, 2001, 07:46 PM

AAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!

i wanted a secret phen pal!! man, i was ready to get my soon to be secret phen pal some stuff *hmph*

i guess, ghetto way or no way now?

October 24th, 2001, 05:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
SeaCruisin Platinum Phenster Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 1,236 Lost Weight: I have lost a Total of 110 LBS ! Current Weight: 145 Goal Weight: Was 147 Made That Goal, Now Its 125 !	Today is the 24th, All packages should be on there way to your Secret Pals ! If not, Please do so ASAP. Also if you could please post when you mail/recieve that would be great. After MUCH thought, I have decided that this is NOT working out. Alot of bickering, People making nasty posts, etc, I will NOT continue to host this. I put alot of work into this and feel pretty hurt by it all. I can deal with my feelings hurt, What I cant deal with is people writing me telling me all of the sudden they cant " afford " to mail their package, Posts about feeling out of the Clique, Nasty emails to me, etc. I was just trying to do something motivating For all of us. I feel its turned into a disaster. So if you wish to continue with your secret pal, please do so, If not, please send the one and only package that was due out on the 23rd. I AM not bashing anyone, making excuses or any of that. I enjoyed getting it all together. I do feel that if you joined the swap that you should be sending at least your ONE package, afterall , it would not be fair for one person to get one and one to not. "Never Give Up And Never Give In

October 24th, 2001, 05:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
FRANCIE Platinum Phenster Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,237 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 165 Goal Weight: 110	HI SEA MONKEY! I mailed my package Saturday. And I received 2 gifts from my Pal!! So all is well with me! I am sorry for whatever crazinesshas been going on in your email box! SHEESH! PS>> I AM DOING "EXACTLY" AS I SIGNED UP TO DO....I WILL MAIL THE REMAINING 2 PACKAGES AND EXPOSE MYSELF ON THE DEC GIFT. CHEER UP.....THAT SIGNATURE OF YOUR LOOKS DAMN GOOD!!!!!! [ October 24, 2001: Message edited by: FRANCIE ] HEIGHT 5'2" SW 176 (10/16/03) CW 165 GW 110-115

October 24th, 2001, 05:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
SparkleC Platinum Phenster Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Wonderland Posts: 1,297 Lost Weight: 15 pounds Current Weight: 145 Goal Weight: 130	gosh sea,,,im so sorry you had to deal with all that... i thought it was a great idea and i appreciate all the effort you put into it... and anyone who sent a nasty email to sea.. SHAME ON YOU i completely understand why you dont want to continue....but it was fun while it lasted 160/145/130 15 more to go!!!!

October 24th, 2001, 05:21 PM	#4 (permalink)
nal Diamond Phenster Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Seattle area Posts: 4,898 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: afraid to look Goal Weight: 160	I am so sad to hear that this went badly - I was looking forward to being in the next one. I completely understand you wanting out - to work hard on something to benefit others, and then have some of them have the unmitigated gall to criticize or back out....I'd be FURIOUS!! Those of you who did this - SHAME on you. Now someone will probably be mad at me, but I don't care. Thank you for your efforts, SC!! Are We Cruisin' Yet?

October 24th, 2001, 05:23 PM	#5 (permalink)
nal Diamond Phenster Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Seattle area Posts: 4,898 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: afraid to look Goal Weight: 160	SparkleC - we seem to think alike! Are We Cruisin' Yet?

October 24th, 2001, 05:30 PM	#6 (permalink)
Nitra Wonder Phenster Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Houston TX Posts: 5,710 Lost Weight: 70.5 Current Weight: 183 Goal Weight: 150ish	Sea Im sorry this is happening to you. I appreciate the effort you put into this and am having a grand time picking out things. Already getting stuff for my next package. I have no intention of stopping until Xmas as planned. Seems some really like to be ugly in email huh? Thats a shame. We are all ADULTS right?? Anyone wanna send me nasty mail go for it. Just lay off Sea! She put a lot into this and it is supposed to be fun! And yall wonder why I dont post much anymore.

October 24th, 2001, 05:37 PM	#7 (permalink)
sarita Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Maryland Posts: 52 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Hi Sea! I am so sorry you have been having such a time with the phen pal thing. I honestly think it is a great idea you started. It is so fun waiting for something other than a bill in the mail...I just did post on Robin's Who is not a secret pal and I realize that may have hurt your feelings. I am always impressed with people who take the time to start something like this. You are obviously a motivated and hard working person. I don't visit the forum every day and I missed the post about the unhappy phen pal. It looks like a lot of people are excited about the gifts they have received...but what is so nice is they are even more excited about the gifts they are giving. I guess you can tell I'm a "glass is half full" kinda gal. Hang in there Sea and if you are really feeling down...scroll back and count the positive posts about the secret phen pal exchange...I think you will find that they out number the negatives by far.... Take care Sea! sarita

October 24th, 2001, 05:44 PM	#8 (permalink)
sarita Bronze Phenster Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Maryland Posts: 52 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Hi again Sea! I just saw Nitra's post when the page refreshed...Nitra, way to prove my point about people being more excited about giving than receiving!!!! I also realized Sea that I never actually apologized for possibly hurting your feelings by being silly in Robin's post...If I did make you feel badly sea...I am so sorry...you have been so gracious in this forum and I truly did not mean to hurt you...Take good care Sea! sarita

October 24th, 2001, 05:46 PM	#9 (permalink)
FRANCIE Platinum Phenster Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,237 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 165 Goal Weight: 110	Hey Sea, If it makes you feel better.. I got hate email too! HEIGHT 5'2" SW 176 (10/16/03) CW 165 GW 110-115

October 24th, 2001, 05:54 PM	#10 (permalink)
Moonwatcher Diamond Phenster Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: TEXAS- Home of the beautiful people! Posts: 3,722 Lost Weight: 0lbs	Hey Sea, This should REALLY make you feel better... One time I even sent hate email to myself! ~PEACE~LOVE~and God Bless America

October 24th, 2001, 06:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
Moosh Silver Phenster Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: long island Posts: 189 Lost Weight: 0lbs	I can't believe you got nasty e-mail. I had fun shopping for my pal, and I am going to continue to send as planned. It was and still is a GREAT IDEA!!!! I think you did a wonderful thing and I hope everyone continues as planned, but I will not be offended if I don't receive anything. Please don't let "some people" ruin it for everyone!!!!!!

October 24th, 2001, 06:06 PM	#12 (permalink)
Sandye Voice of Wisdom Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,305 Lost Weight: 20 Current Weight: 131 Goal Weight: 125	Sorry that you have been blasted in emails, Sea - you certainly don't one deserve that. You tried to do something that was positive and (once again) the negative vibe that permeates this forum messed things up again! You did a great job and you are to be commended. It was a tremendous effort and I hope that you know that. All you can do is the best you can do ... but the best you can do is enough.

October 24th, 2001, 07:09 PM	#13 (permalink)
ROBIN Diamond Phenster Join Date: Feb 2000 Posts: 4,615 Lost Weight: 0lbs Current Weight: 140\'ish	Sea, I don't know what happened with your secret phen people. I hope my topic didn't have anything to do with this. I think what you started is great! I was the one who told you guys to go to Rena's site and get this started over there because J & J weren't going to let the email exchange go on here. I think it's wonderful to see how many people are doing this. It's great support! I'm just in my own little world in that other topic. That is a bich topic. It's rainy and cloudy over there. I'm pi$$ed at Jipi! If I said anything in that topic that makes you think I was making fun of your Phen group, I'm sorry. I wasn't trying to do that. This had nothing to do with anyone here besides John and Jipi. My saying my topic looked the best meaning ... the stars***. It was my way of getting over what Jipi did to my topic be editing my words. He still didn't win! I can forgive him this way. That's all I meant. Have you noticed how all of the weird people are posting in that topic? It's kinda scary

October 24th, 2001, 07:46 PM	#14 (permalink)
Chunsa Silver Phenster Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Florida Posts: 182 Lost Weight: 13 pounds...	AAAHHHHHHHHHHHH! i wanted a secret phen pal!! man, i was ready to get my soon to be secret phen pal some stuff hmph i guess, ghetto way or no way now?