O.T. Do you think opposites attract?

[missus]

Do you think opposites attract?






I think opposites attract and that's what kindles the romance. However, after sometime together, the opposites blend into one.

Your opinion?

Missus

[therightrhodes]

I agree. My wife and I to this day are nothing alike. She's thrifty with money (okay, she's tight). I want something, I buy it. Why wait til next week when it's supposed to be on sale, I want it today? That makes a good combo. She stresses about everything. I stress about nothing. Stress has never fixed anything. She has to be on a schedule and plan everything out. I'm like, let's just go and we'll see where we end up. I don't like to be on a time schedule. She likes to be home all the time, I don't like to sit at home. There's so much more we could be doing elsewhere. lol

Opposites are great, because you need that happy medium. After being married for 6 years, I'm pretty much the same, but she has loosened up quite a bit, but we're still very different.

If you ask me if something looks good on you, I'll tell you yes or no. She'll always say yes, I love it. I'm honest, with her, it's what you want to hear. lol.

[marymomof2]

Oh yes! I talk all the time, my husband hates to talk! If we were the same, we would never talk to each other, or we would fight for time to talk to each other. he loves to stay home, i like to go out, he hates sports, i am a huge sports fan...so many things....

but it works so well for us!

[Eternity]

Im not sure. I was married to a guy whom I had nothing in common with, plus he was 13 yrs older than me, and well it s u c k e d!! We did nothing but fight, he partied and I didnt, and way more things... well he was just an a s s! LOL
Current hubby and I are very much alike. We get along very well, always talk, and play, never have serious fights, our fights on the rare occasions we do fight lasts prolly no longer than 30 minutes. The only huge difference is hes a sports fanatic and well im forcing myself to love it! LOL
I think if its meant to be, it will be whether oppsites or not. It really all depends how on important the relationship is to each other and how hard they are willing to work at keeping it fresh!

[2teensNabean]

Yes, definately opposites attract. I'm an aquarious, husband is a leo. I'm easy going, calm, tend to stress a little about small things. He has a temper, sometimes not to easy going and dont stress like me. He loves sports, not me. I could go on and on about this and yup february we will be married "20 YEARS"!!

[eyegotu]

Opposites definitely attract!! My question is can they stay together? :confused:

The man that I consider the love of my life frustrates me to no end. We have gone back and forth for FIFTEEN years!! :mad: I

[benson012094]

I'd have to say YES also. My husband and I (12 years and counting) have very little in common. But the one thing we have in common, which I think is the most important, is family values. He is a Pices (water sign), I am a Virgo (Earth sign), together we make mud. And I also believe it can last.

[justmarried521]

Oh yes
My hubby is 41 and I'm 24
He's quiet and laid back I am your typical Irish red head.
He like to stay home I like to go out.
I stress he never does.
But we get along so well. We have yet to have a fight. He's my best friend