rene76
December 28th, 2002, 04:52 PM
he is not doing well. he has a 3 yr old that he just found out about back in june or so and he pays dearly for her....he has no court date yet for his custody case and with the holidays and all..he's not well. he is going for joint custody with him being the primary custodian... giving her limited visitation. she is a drug addict and alcholic. she has 2 other children by 2 other men who are also fighting for the kids. this girl is only 21...IF THAT!! her kids are 5, 3 and 2. the money my ex pays in child support doesn't even go to the mother...it goes to the state to pay back the welfare that she's been on! augh!! i am sorry to vent here...i know i don't even know you guys...but i have to b it ch to someone and my husband is not the one to talk to about this...he's not my ex husbands biggest fan...lol!! i am just so upset that he is so upset and i know he wants to be a good father...he doesnt even know what she looks like. he's never even seen a picture....it's just a bad deal all around...this is my daughters little sister and she's living in a bad situation. her mother is in jail non stop...the neighbor is in contact with my ex mother in law and told her the other day that jocelyns hair is so matted that she's afraid it is going to have to be cut and that she doesn't know when the last time was that the baby had a bath! i just want to cry.
~rene'
[ December 28, 2002, 09:54 PM: Message edited by: rene76 ]
~rene'
[ December 28, 2002, 09:54 PM: Message edited by: rene76 ]