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Old July 16th, 2008, 03:22 AM   #5 (permalink)
Band Mamma
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I know that there are times in life when the hardest thing to do is to walk away. I personally feel that each person is own their own journey in life and there are lessons we all need to learn along the way that are specific to our own personal journey. There are times I can help someone along their path, and then there are times I am just a person getting in the way.
Wanting to help someone is natural- especially for a women. However, sometimes that "help" is not help at all, but a road block on their path. I may not be the right person or it may be the right time to help someone. It would be wrong of me to keep blocking their path.
Do not prevent him from growing as a person, healing what needs healed, and learning what he needs to learn. He has enough of his own road blocks without someone adding another one.
Understand?
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