Thank so much Raquel and SHess2004! I really appreciate the support! Sometimes I think I am just crazy, I probably am a bit though!
To Raquel, I do limit the times my parents see my kids, they do watch them on Fridays for me while I am at work, but the other days they go to daycare. It is hard when you do feel like other people are raising your kids since you have to work, but I am just going to have to be assertive when I need to which I am getting better at, but parents are stubborn too! Of course, then my dad also made it worse by suggesting that we should go out to eat together at a pizza buffet or a chinese buffet!! I think he wants to sabotage my weight loss! Luckily, I do not like buffets and I am not all that fond of chinese food,, so I did not go out to eat with them, he probaby did not like it that I told him that the chinese buffet was bad for him!
