[Raquel]

That just really really bites. Could not be more sorry for you. I'd love to say things happen for a reason, but that has little comfort and it really never comforts me when someone says it to me. I'd offer chocolate but that would **** too in the long run ... how about a fruit tray? LOL

Damnitalltohell - I sure would be hosting 6 kids (your 4 & my 2) for some serious fun if you were closer ... it would be like "Mom's leaving and we are having fun" because I just don't see you missing out on this.

Carmen calls her inlaws outlaws ... I call mine "By laws" because it's ONLY By Law that I so unfortunate to have mine. Grrrr.

So frustrated for you. I don't have much and sometimes never help with the care of my boys. My friends are all in the carreers and had their kids much younger. And for the 1st time in my life - I'm missing out on life's events and even though there is no better reason ie: 2 toddlers ... I still know the feeling and it simply s u c k s.

Anyway - congrats on the Harley. My friends had ONE ... she got tired of "riding" and said the heck with it and got one of her own a year later.
So maybe go buy get one of your very own? LOL
CHROME and more CHROME! Hope you guys get a lot of enjoyment out of it!