I think Melmin hit it right on target. She is apparently very envious of YOU and what you have.
I don't know how to get over feeling the anger..other than just time healing those things, but rest assured that you have a great man! I'd just ignore her as much as possible and not give her the satisfaction of thinking you are the least bit bothered or intimidated by her. Because in fact, she is probably intimidated by YOU.

Height 5'8"
HW 189
8/12 185 SW
8/18 176 -9
8/25 172 -4
9/01 170 -2
9/13 167 -3 Doctor weigh-in
9/17 165 -2 (20 down)
9/24 164 -1
10/01 159.5 -4.5
10/08 159.5 -0
10/15 158 -1.5 Doctor weigh-in
10/22 156 -2
10/29 155 -1 (30 pounds gone)
11/05 154 -1
11/12 152 -2
11/19 151 -1
11/26 150 -1 (35 down)
12/03 148 -2
12/10 146 -2
My body seems to like it at 146!!
1/5/05 145 (40 BIG ones) GW FINALLY!! Woohoo!