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ok..seems like this is the best place for me to air this out.. since i get so much great advice otherwise!

OK! i had this best friend. our daughters would play together.. we live in the same neighborhood.. etc.. well.. it all came to a halt when my hubby told me she came on to him one night.. when i wasnt around.. and when i say came on to him.. i mean came on to him.. HEAVILY!! every since then we have talked and had words... she finally admitted what she did.. and how he reacted to it.. she said she was embarrassed cuz he pushed her away! and didnt expect that.. NOW... we are on complete NON talking terms.. BUT.. i have to see her DAILY cuz again, our kids go to school together and we are in the same neighborhood! this mornign was the first time i had seen her in 2 weeks since school has been out.. and UGH... i never thought i wanted to strangle anyone more in my life! STILL after all this time! * happened end of Sept* soo... now, im left with still HOW to deal with my anger?? she is thin and alwasy made such a big deal about HER being thin and i wasnt.. made me feel inadquete comapared to her.. only thing is.. like i told her one night.. thin dosent make u beautiful!and she was stunned.. like huh.. which she isnt very attractive.. just THIN.. but anyways.. now im left to see her daily and feel this anger, like i wanna ring a chickens neck lol.. OH and she hates HATES the idea that im getting thin!! hates it.. and told me on our last conversation that she dosent feel comfortable with ME around her hubby!! im like WHAT!!!! such a dummy.. shes the type that cheats and flirts when hubby is away.. but then boohoos and gets all worked up when he does something or says something.. a total hipocrite.. how do u deal with complete hate for someone that u have to see daily!!?? help??