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Hi Rene'
Well, I just have to say, you do really have a beautiful, striking, face. I notice it everytime you post. I am sure people have been noticing that for most of your life.
Women, weight, and emotions are hugely complicated. I got more attention than I was comfortable with when I weighed 125 and I was 25 yrs old. Sometimes I wonder if I keep the extra pounds somehow to protect myself from all that attention.
I want to look good for my hubby because I love him and he responds to it. I think he deserves a wife who cares about herself and her looks.
I think your friend, being a personal trainer, feels that he can say to you that he sees potential in you. I doesn't change who you are.
I would bet you get a huge amount of attention anyway, I think you have to prepare yourself for it to increase as your weight goes down. It is just human nature for that to happen.
Good luck to you
Me and hubby
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