[jennklb]

I agree that you have to do it for yourself 100%. Now that being said, I also think you should take care of your body for your whole family. Health reasons are obvious but in my opinion it's not fair to my husband to look like a totally different person than he married. People put on weight when they get married or have babies or just get older, but I gained 80lbs in 5 years! I know that what is on the inside counts the most, no doubt about that, I'm the same person. But I also feel a sense of obligation to him to look and feel better.