hmmm- well, I have mixed emotions about this guy saying this to you but since that is not the question ........
I really feel like for me to get it in gear as far as weighloss goes, I need to have everything in order so to speak. If there is any other part of my life that is experiencing some sort of drama,stress,change....forget it....I fall of the wagon.
I think people that notice you when you walk into a room notice your confidence, the way you carry yourself...etc....so I really cannot agree with the whole "they look at your pretty face and think...." part.
I really started to get rid of this weight when I started becoming a little selfish....healthy selfishness is what I like to call it. MAKE YOURSELF happy first, take care of yourself first....when you are ready to do it you will be able to.For some reason it is so hard for mothers/wives and women in general to do that. We are always trying to do too much in too little time. So, start really asking yourself....what do I want?
Do you think that was his version of a nice way for him to tell you that's what he would like you to be?? you know maybe an untactful guys way of encouraging you or something?
Either way....do what you want to do when you want to do it....and always make sure you are happy!
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