I am so sorry your mom did that to you. I am not telling my mom that I am taking the Phen just because she would worry and I don't want that. This all reminds me of my aunt and my cousin. My aunt is so jealous of her daughter... she says things like that to her all the time. I don't understand it. My daughter is 9... and I want so much more for her than what I have had. I cannot imagine saying something like that to my children. Anyways... I have found that it is best to just avoid negative people. In fact, one of my New Years Resolutions is to "weed the negative people out of my life". I know you don't want to completely cut your mom out of your life, but maybe until you lose your weight, just avoid her a little more. You don't need someone discouraging you. Take care!
