Thank you! I think I already knew all this in my heart. I am going with the strategy "kill her with kindness". Watching her really does motivate me to not be that way again.
She's not the kind of person who would respond well to a 'let's talk heart to heart about how you're being a b*tch'. She's very agressive. I have comfronted her about rude behavior and she flew into a rage. So, no thank you on that. As for getting her to join me on the diet thing - that's another big no. She's got her own theories on weight loss and she scoffs at my attempts. Oh well..
I'm going to be A-OK. In fact, she probably is really helping me. She'll invite a few people to go to McDonalds and say something like 'Heather won't go since she's too good to eat there'. I've started saying "Thank you for not inviting me, my will power might not survive a trip to Mickeys, Ya'll have a good time!"
I just feel sorry for her most of the time. Thank you all for encouraging me to rise above it. But, Moon - if you'll come with me, we can jump her in the parking lot
