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I think the best thing to do is to make he recognize her own behavior and let her know that hurts your feelings. Pull her aside (away from the skinny girl) and say: I have really had to work very hard at losing weight, and it hasn't been fun or easy for me to do it and it is particularly hurtful when you mock me for it because you know very well what it is like to struggle with your weight. I'd appreciate it if you would be a little more sensitive to the fact that I have to monitor and regulate what I eat in order to maintain the weight that I am at, and if that makes me "too picky"...then so be it. I'd rather be picky than obese.
That would shut her up...and it's not really mean either - at least I don't think it is.
JUST my 2 cents.
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