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She's obviously in a lot of pain about her own weight, and seeing you succeed makes her failure all that more upsetting. Of course it's hard to be sympathetic to a person who acts nasty towards you, but it would totally disarm her if you told her you understand why she feels she must undermine your diet in order to ease her own pain, and you are very sorry that she hasn't found something that works for her....etc. While telling her off makes a good revenge fantasy, do a good deed and go the nice route. You never know if/when you might be back in her shoes one day.
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