This is the first I read your post. Glad to hear you are feeling better. I don't want to comment on your hubby because I know you love him and I don't want to say anything bad. I would like to say I DO NOT AGREE with his method of helping you. But instead turn it around and use it as fire power. Prove to him....NO PROVE to Yourself that you can do this. And the day that you reach your goal and look awsome. Just know that YOU did it for YOU!!! Not him!!! And don't forget to flaunt it and have fun. (I don't mean to pick up other men, I mean to be proud) Good Luck!!!
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