sorry to be the bearer of not so happy news........but on the main forum, the ridiculous threads and vengeance and threats is old. Its coming from your oldest phensters. Not oldest in member status, but oldest in age on here. Its ridiculous, not motivating,not inspiring, and pretty disgusting and depressing. People flooded in here, most posted once, most bashed, and disappear..........you have people going in chat that are in disguise and disrespect, vulgarly, the ones who do go in under their post names, you have the ones in disguise that act as tho they are someone else, you have p.m's transversed between evil posters, gaining confidential information on other posters, tracking them by ip's........doing a search on their names, which could easily result in private information.
Im here for support and to support, I think the OT threads are great, but when bash comes to bash, dont just lock, delete, or ban one.......do it to all. Also, I think just because someones been here since phen came to life, should have no bearing on preference of punishment. Read the WHOLE thread , if your going to lock them, delete them, or ban someone. I personally have never been banned, Ive never done anything to be banned for. But some people can get very rude, forked tongue type, and continue beating a dead horse which then leads to contamination of most the threads that are 'active'. Then you have a 'particular' group that the mods protect, why?, Ive been hacked twice and virused too many times to mention, I KNOW WHO IT IS , it is a very reputable, long standing member. Ive not complained, Ive not suggested a ban, Ive not asked to be PROTECTED, but all these posts get locked and innocent people are being accused of something they are not even aware of, and then out of concern, that person tried to contact a mod to see what is going on, she is just 'simply' replied to in her open thread and then it was locked, whereas no further ?'s and no answers to her concerns. Just simple, brief, and in alot of minds, RUDE! You have one mod that goes in to certain posts with '
' and showing favoritism, yet the ones that contribute most and are sincere in their ventures here, get ignored, locked, deleted, or banned....makes no sense to me. A site cannot survive on these means. I can 'forward' a very nasty post from this mod to a very determined, and NEEDED poster here at phen.com
Just my suggestion.
Other than that, ive invested ALOT! of money to this site, I support this site, Ive contributed to the MAIN owned site of this site (those that im directing know what im talking about), Ive offered and given support to those that need it, Ive been supported and received ALL my meds Ive ordered thru this site. Please dont take offense, but really enough is enough. This should be IN BOLD, an adult mannered site with respect in order. I understand ones opinion against another, but it takes it one step further, when the bashing, vulgar disrespect and continous spreading of vengeance enter into play.
Happy weekend all.